Growing Up City #4: Public School

Growing Up City #4: Public School

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The 500 pound gorilla in the room keeping company with most family's decision weather to live in the city or not is the question of schools. City schools are burdened with massive legacy costs from aging infrastructure, dwindling tax base, out of control bureaucracy, and the special problems inherent with dysfunctional poverty stricken neighborhoods, and then there is the issue of race. As I noted in the third installation of this series my family bucked the trend during the 1970's and moved into the city. I attended public school for 7th and 8th grade but the most valuable part of my education came from the city itself.

We moved to the Elmwood Village at a time when this part of the city was set to reinvent itself as the premiere city neighborhood but was still quite rough around the edges. Its continued success was far from certain. The neighborhood was mostly white, its residents relatively well off financially but, (as it is now) was bordered by very poor neighborhoods on 2 sides.

This part of the city has such massive contrasts that you can literally walk 10 minutes from Tudor Place, one of WNY's most exclusive streets, to abject poverty east of Main Street. These are the kinds of contrasts that make many people uncomfortable. Contrast and diversity is both the strength and weakness of the city. The tensions and clashes inherent with close proximity of people with different world experience can be the source of many problems as well as the genesis of tremendous creativity. I can not comprehend my life today without having had direct exposure to this diversity, both good and bad.

I am ashamed to say that as a very young child I was scared to be touched by a black person. My parents were not overtly racist. I was not taught to hate. It is just that most of the images I received with an African American face came through nightly news footage of riots, crime, and burning neighborhoods. My early suburban upbringing offered me no contact with anyone other than people who were basically the same as me (oddly I was the minority as the only Protestant kid in my pretty much 100% Catholic neighborhood). That changed once we moved. An African American neighborhood was only a few blocks from my new house (literally at the end of my block just east of Millard Fillmore hospital).

Up to the time we moved to this neighborhood I had never seen a black person on my street or in my school, ever! As one of the few suburbs with a substantial black population, bussing was a possibility that weighed quite heavily on the minds of parents in Lackawanna. This was always a fear in my Lackawanna grammar school and any discussion of race among my peers at school revolved around how horrible it would be if they brought black kids to our school. In that city the races were conveniently divided by a swath of railroad tracks. In Buffalo the separation of races was stark, but but far less fixed.

I remember very clearly my early days at West Delevan School #56 ( Now Olmsted Magnet School one of the most respected schools in the region). Upon my first glimpse of the school I knew things were going to be very different. I am sure I was very nervous but I don't have any recollection of that emotion. The building was a hulking, three-story pile of brick and terra cotta pushed tight to the street and squeezed between its neighboring houses.

No big school yard, no play ground, and no name. Just a number to designate the place. It has a big grand auditorium off the back and a gym in the basement with a ceiling that is too low. Its upper classrooms look out on the vastness of the city with huge windows. It was all wondrous and strange. I remember making friends and enemies very quickly. The kids in my homeroom class could only be described as a rag tag group; they were short and tall, fat and freckled, smart and slow. A small number were also black. This is the closest I had ever been to a black person for an extended time. This was the first time I ever interacted with a black person.

The truth is the interaction between the white and black kids was still quite limited. Even in this close proximity the fact is that we came from very different worlds. We saw and interpreted things differently. Distrust was inherent in the relationship in both directions. Even so, I gained valuable incite into human interaction from that classroom. One such lesson happened unexpectedly.
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There was one kid who decided from the start that he did not like me. I was smallish and skinny and was not very athletic. I was an easy target for someone who needed to prove himself. This kid was always egging me on, teasing, and bullying. One day the pestering got a bit too much to tolerate and the only way to end it was to stand and fight. On the way home from school that day we came to blows. The fight gathered a crowd including many of the black kids. I was determined not to lose and fought to a draw. The African American kids were firmly on my side rooting me on the whole time. To them I was the underdog. I was their representative in that fight. To them my fight was their fight. I fought to a draw but I was not bothered by this kid any more. And though I never became close friends with the black kids in class we definitely had a new unspoken bond between us. I attended public school but the walls of this school were very broad.

Next up - #5 Exploration
Also - a reminder that you are invited to submit your own growing up city experience.

Rock Harbor

What Others Have To Say

  1. lfh

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    Nov 17th 2008, 08:28

    What happened to the swimming pool?? Does anyone remember the principal, Elizabeth Fritz Strauss?

  2. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 17th 2008, 09:12

    Black Rock and Riverside were pretty much all white in the early 1970's except for a few black families in the projects. After being somewhat sheltered attending the neighborhood school a big change came in 1970. We were sent to the "new" West Hertel Middle School and integration became a part of life for us. The black and white kids did not mix much at all and this did keep conflict on the back burner. A couple of years later at Riverside High School all hell broke loose resulting in the National Guard occupying our school. Black kids and white kids were attacked at random which brought an atmosphere of fear and distrust. Adults of both races not only added to the conflict but some actually took part in the violence. I do not have good memories of this time and believe our education suffered greatly due to the fear and hatred that dominated that year. By senior year we began to get along a little better and some whites and blacks even became friends. As I have said before I believe integration was the right thing to do and we are better for it but at the time it was not a pleasant experience for any, black or white.

  3. PaulBuffalo

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    Nov 17th 2008, 10:01

    I'll echo Blackrocklifer's sentiments regarding Riverside. The 'N' word is still tossed out regularly in conversation by the old timers and racism is not limited to isolated instances. Young people there seem to have more enlightened attitudes and, hopefully, time will make the neighborhood a more inclusive place to live.

    I think everyone would benefit from reading Malcolm Gladwell's best-selling book, 'Blink' (http://www.gladwell.com/blink/index.html), that discusses how we unconsciously perceive race.

    Harvard, in conjunction with other universities, has created an online test you can take (https://implicit.harvard.edu/implicit/demo/takeatest.html) to reveal your hidden biases on a number of issues, including race.

  4. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 17th 2008, 10:50

    I think the racism that exists in Buffalo today is a result of the poverty that defines this city. It is easy to blame "others" for the problems that exist in our communities instead of looking at the real cause. Greed has resulted in a huge disparity in the distribution of wealth. The only way to make good citizen's and neighbors is to give all the opportunity to make a decent living, even those that may not be as bright or educated as we would desire. The "permanent underclass" should be an embarrassment to any decent American. Until we face this problem and demand change there is little hope of a better future.

  5. STEEL

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    Nov 17th 2008, 11:22

    Right on BlackRock. The problem is that many construe that to mean that thier tax dollars will be spent on more welfare for lazy cheats. The wealthiest country in America should be able to eliminate the continuous and self perpetuating chain of poverty that eats away like cancer in the inner city.

  6. benfranklin

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    Nov 17th 2008, 11:57

    Those of us not in the 'permanent underclass' work very hard at not being a part of it. Greed's not the problem, lack of effort is. My son goes to kindnergarten at a well known public school. We do 30 minutes of homework a night (minimum), and then read a book. My suggestion to those that want to break the cycle you mention would be to do 45 minutes of homework a night, and read two books. There are no shortcuts.

  7. STEEL

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    Nov 17th 2008, 12:18

    Ben,

    Are you saying this to the child of a family who does not have that work ethic. The child grows up knowing only one way of doing things, that being the way his parents do things. Many children are trapped in this cycle. They will grow up to perpetuate it.

    My pre k children know the alphabet and all the sounds of the letters. They are doing rudimentary reading. There are children their age that don't even know what the alphabet is. Are you saying that these 4 year old children should buck it up and get off their lazy @sses? The problem is just not that simple.

  8. benfranklin

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    Nov 17th 2008, 12:42

    Perhaps my issue lies more with blackrocklifer and his comment that "the "permanent underclass" should be an embarrassment to any decent American."

    If the 4 year olds parent's aren't motivated, or lack a 'work ethic', I'm supposed to feel embarrassed? If someone watches tv twelve hours a day, I'd say that's a choice, not some social issue that proves greed is the root of all evil.

  9. STEEL

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    Nov 17th 2008, 12:54

    4 year olds do not make informed choices. They make choices based on their environment and extremely limited experience with the world.

    You should not be embarrassed by the lazy TV watcher. You should be embarrassed that our country has no plan for or intent to change the situation that plagues the poorest parts of our country.

  10. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 17th 2008, 12:54

    benfranklin- I agree parental involvement is key to success but I can remember a time when decent jobs were avaliable to anyone willing to work. This is not the case today because business has sold out the American worker to increase profits for themselves and shareholders. Shouldn't the richest country in the world be able (and willing) to pay a living wage to all?

  11. PaulBuffalo

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    Nov 17th 2008, 12:55

    Racism is simply a belief that one race is better than another. Humankind has invented excuses like poverty, lopsided tax systems, poor worth ethic, lack of values, or poor moral rectitude as reasons to deflect responsibility from ourselves. Racism can never be justified. That's the problem. That's why it still exists.

  12. benfranklin

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    Nov 17th 2008, 13:13

    Steel, as far as the plan goes, aren't all of these issues going to be handled by Obama? That is what he promised. Once the no good republicans are out of the way, poverty shouldn't be an issue for Pelosi/Reid and Obama.

    blackrock, our country is losing wealth at an unprecedented rate. How would you pay a living wage to all? You see it that American business sold out the worker, I see it that consumers are satisfied with inferior goods made in countries that are worse off than ours.

  13. STEEL

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    Nov 17th 2008, 13:37

    Ben,

    Obama never promised any such thing. That is just a phony argument. Do you want to have a real conversation or should we just spew some Rush Limbaugh nonsense?

    What do you do about the 4 year old trapped in a cycle of poverty and ignorance? I don't have the answer. I do have an understanding of the complexity of the problem though.

  14. Colin

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    Nov 17th 2008, 13:52

    It's amazing how casual conservatives and libertarians are about the fate of poor children.

  15. EricOak

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    Nov 17th 2008, 13:53

    The rhetoric here on both sides is simplistic.

  16. benfranklin

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    Nov 17th 2008, 14:04

    Obama said he would change the world. I'm not making that up. I actually watched a number of his stump speeches, and he said it in each one (right at the end...just before the fireworks).

    I'm not real comfortable telling someone how they should raise their children, just as I wouldn't want someone telling me how to do that job. How can a child be 'trapped' in a situation brought about by his/her own parents?

  17. stewie

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    Nov 17th 2008, 14:07

    Wow, I went there too & it was the only school where I ever got into a fight as well, at least that I couldn't run away from. I am emotionally traumatized having to take swimming classes there where the freakish fat gym teacher would make all the boys swim naked. The black kids would all piss in the pool & think it was great fun. Many other surreal experiences at that "institution."

  18. whynot

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    Nov 17th 2008, 14:12

    We have set-up programs like Head Start, Universal Pre-K, WIC, and the School Readiness Acts to help break the cycle of poverty for the "permanent underclass". There are numerous before and after-school programs, intervention programs starting as early as age two, and community outreach programs available to every family who receives any type of public assistance or is in contact with Social Services in Buffalo.

    As Blackrocklifer aluded to above, the problem here is the parents of the poor who perpetuate the cycle of poverty. Generation after generation of poor families perpetuate the cycle by teaching their children more about the system than how to survive outside of it. They wish the best for their children, but wishes rarely evolve into actions. Too many families are looking for someone else to solve their problems, for more benefits, for more hand-outs, and for less work.

    God helps those who help themselves, I follow this same philosophy.

  19. AtwaterLouse

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    Nov 17th 2008, 15:23

    The idea from BRLifer's 10:50 comment that racism is caused by not having enough government action against wealth disparity isn't confrimed by countries like France. Very soft safety net over there. So many social programs that working is essentially optional. For those who do take a job, it's next to impossible to ever be fired or layed off. They go about as far as any country can go to try preventing wealth disparity, short of full socialism. Yet still there's a terrible amount of racism in that country.

  20. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 17th 2008, 15:29

    Lets all be honest, the "permanent underclass" I refered to is everyone's problem. It is the fault of the parents (or lack of) and the ghetto culture, It is the fault of the greed that has devalued the American worker for profit of a few, and it is the fault of government that has allowed and even encouraged two separate America's to develop. Work is needed on all fronts to bring change.

  21. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 17th 2008, 16:30

    Atwater- I spent some time in Chicago a few years ago and was suprised by the large middle class black neighborhoods unlike anything here in Buffalo. I was also suprised how well blacks and whites of the middle class socialized together. Economic opportunities make good citizens regardless of race and poverty does exactly the opposite.

  22. AtwaterLouse

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    Nov 17th 2008, 16:46

    BRL - Anecdotes can be told on both sides I'm sure.

    There's just as much chance the cause-effect is the other way around - people not burdened by racist hate perhaps are more likely to succeed in life because they're more likey to cooperate with others, learn from others, etc. - and eventually more likey to hold jobs that let them live in that middle class neighborhood of which you speak in which you observed better relations.

    On the other hand, people with more racist attitudes might keep getting fired from jobs for that reason or other reasons to do with them being stupid or being jerks, and end up disproportionately populating poor neighborhoods bringing their hate with them. In other words sometimes racism might contribute to someone staying poor as much or more than their poverty contributes to them being racist. If you or I ever become poor we still won't be racists. I think my France example is good. Lots of government efforts to keep incomes more equal - and still a lot of racism.

  23. STEEL

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    Nov 17th 2008, 16:58

    Atwater,

    What you say is true to an extent. Problem is that racism falls on both sides. You forget that the racism on the white side is responsible for setting up the poverty stricken ghetto in the first place. It would be nice to say OK we have a black president racism is now done. Thing is, 300 years of oppression leaves a lasting mark. The cycle of ignorance on both sides and the poverty it breeds can not be undone with a snap of the finger.

    That really gets to the heart of what the original story is about. Life learning is much more that a classroom activity. As white American I had no basis to understand black Americans until I lived in the city. Things are very different today of course but we still strive to separate ourselves into groups in this country. This separation make it very difficult to solve the serious social problems eating away at our inner cities.

  24. meanoldman

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    Nov 17th 2008, 17:05

    there are no bad children, just bad parents, who had bad parents, that had bad parents, who's parents were poor and didn't know what being a good parent meant!

  25. AtwaterLouse

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    Nov 17th 2008, 17:10

    I didn't forget anything. It was just a blog comment, written in a balanced way, and without absolutes. It countributed one perspective to the conversaiton. Anyone reading it carefully can see, I didn't make any broad generalizations and wasn't claiming to explain every single g.d. aspect of the topic.

    As often happens here with some people, you in your mind read in absolutes into it, and then tell me what I 'forget' about.

  26. PaulBuffalo

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    Nov 17th 2008, 17:57

    AtwaterLouse, I agree with your earlier paragraph regarding cause-and-effect. Tolerance equals flexibility and that quality opens more doors for people to succeed. Whether one is white or black, being chained to racist attitudes helps no one. Personally, I think many of Buffalo's ills are the consequence of the lasting gasps of racism.

    No country or society is immune to racism. Your comment regarding France makes a good point. Just like our next door neighbor, Canada, it has a glass ceiling for minorities. My friends in Denmark often comment on the racial issues there in spite of the well-known social safety net. There is opportunity in many countries for minorities -- up to a point. Poverty is not a cause of racism; it's just one of the effects. Racism's only cause is ego.

  27. heathersmiles

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    Nov 17th 2008, 18:48

    Personally, I think we use the broad term of "racism" as a crutch far too often. The Emperor is naked, but we keep telling him how nicely he is dressed.

    We all know that there are many hard working poor who are doing their best to improve their situation in life, and there are many more who could care less about trying to make things better. Take a look at the unfortunate incident that took place on Jefferson Ave a few weeks ago. A child pointed a gun at a Police Officer and was killed, but instead of saying anything accusatory about the child or parents, we immediately blame the "SYSTEM" and the victim in the situation. We heard that the officer made an incorrect judgment based on the race of the attacker, and that the attacker had an untreated illness that could have prevented all of this. To that I say, Bullshit! The kid was a punk who robbed the wrong guy, the system didn't let him down, his parent(s) did.

    Same thing holds true for most of the poor, there are far too many people making babies in their abundant free time and then blaming the system for how hard it is to raise so many children. Three words for these people, GET A JOB! Walmart isn't racist, either is Target, or Dollar General, or Tops, or any of the numerous other employers out there with "HELP WANTED" posted in the window.

    Fact: Getting a job puts the generous welfare benefits in jeopardy, you are better off not working than to work for minimum or above minimum wage.

    Fact: Racism is often self-inflicted. There is too much "I can't because they are keeping me down" mentality in this world. This is the mentality that has crippled our nation and it is the antithesis of the work ethic that built it.

    Fact: There is a glass ceiling for all people, just because you are a white male doesn't mean that you are going to be a CEO, and just because you are an African American doesn't mean that you are going to be poor. We make our own lots in life, some are hungrier and willing to do more to make it.

    Fact: Any woman who has a child before she turns 21 is at a significant risk of poverty and hardship, yet the under 21 birth rate for minority and so called oppressed communities are more than 40 times higher than affluent and / or white communities.

    Fact: Sometimes it is better to be considered the underdog and a victim than it is to actually get up and move on with life. It is far too easy to use race, economic status, and gender as a crutch, and far harder to move beyond these self-limiting perceptions. I know because I fought this battle for years.

  28. heathersmiles

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    Nov 17th 2008, 18:52

    I was thinking the other day that it is appropriate that the Statue of Liberty is in New York State. I think we should change the plaque to read:

    Welcome to New York:

    Give me your lazy, your poor, Your huddled masses yearning to live for free, The wretched and oppressed from the lower 48, Send these, the hopeless, welfare dependent, to me: I will show them through our golden door.

  29. georged

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    Nov 17th 2008, 19:40

    Excellent posts Heather!! Well stated. A lot of "talkers" on this site that feel that many of the poor have had no other choices. You can get a good education in any city school or a bad education in the top-rated suburban school. It is up to the individual and their family. Without a family support to help you and push you, it is a challenge to do so.

    If so many of the posters here are concerned they should volunteer at one of the most deprived Buffalo Public Schools. That may do more to help the city than protesting demolitions of rat-infested homes or getting bike racks built.

  30. Biniszkiewicz

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    Nov 17th 2008, 20:46

    Cannot recommend highly enough the book "Black Rednecks and White Liberals" by Thomas Sowell. Exceptional insights into racism in America and educational attitudes within the African American community. Splendid read.

  31. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 17th 2008, 20:59

    heather- You are making the case that racism comes from distrust, ignorance, and especially misinformation. It is the lack of personal relationships caused by segregation of the poor (and minorities) that separate us. Stereotypes about different cultures soon fall apart when we are fortunate to get to know others as co-workers, neighbors, and of course friends.

  32. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 17th 2008, 21:12

    and this applies to poor people

  33. allfit

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    Nov 17th 2008, 23:26

    BRL - Where did you read that in Heather's comments? You have a magical way of painting racism and oppression by the wealthy into most of your comments. On the flip side, you paint pictures of the suburbs and the affluent with a very broad brush, assuming that someone from the suburbs or someone with money has no reason to be friends with minorities or the poor. That is an absolutely incorrect stereotype.

  34. sonyactivision

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    Nov 17th 2008, 23:37

    When the factories closed and the jobs moved out of Buffalo, everybody was affected. Some had enough social mobility (i.e. they were white) to find work elsewhere and they too left. Others were stranded and relied on public assistance to survive. Many would also leave to find work but lack the education, the means to move, or the desire to leave their neigborhoods to act. But to villify these people as "lazy" and "on the take" just isn't fair. What you perceive as laziness might be the choice by someone not to work at a job that pays $1,000 a month when that simply isn't a living wage. Likewise, a young woman who gives birth does so for a variety of personal reasons, not merely to game the system. It's like so many of you people never evolved after Reagan left office.

  35. heathersmiles

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    Nov 18th 2008, 00:48

    Sony - You describe a series of choices. The choice not to take a job paying $1,520 a month (what McDonald's current pays) because they believe that they deserve more. The choice to bring children into the world without being able to care for them or to provide them with an environment that the child can thrive in. The choice to live off welfare instead of seeking new skills or taking a new job. The choice to let external factors, such as your own perception of what someone else will think of you, keep you from being all you can be.

    These are choices that cost everyone in the end. We can paint this as racism, as laziness, as anything we want to paint it. The fact is that there are choices to be made in this life, and those choices dictate our success or failure in many aspects of life, from parenting to wealth, from education to prison, and every other variable imaginable.

    There are choices regarding race, to not even try at a job because you might feel that the employer won't hire someone of your skin color, age, religion, gender, or country of origin is a cop out. There are numerous laws that protect minorities in this country, and it is easy money for someone who has been discriminated against.

    The fact is that it is easier to live off $1,240 a month in direct benefits for a family of 4 than it is to work at McDonalds' for $1,520. Why start on a career path when the initial reward is so low, especially when there is no promise of moving up to $1,800 or $2,500 per month. The notion of "you have to start somewhere" is totally lost on many people. They come in to do a job that they already feel they are overqualified for and underpaid to do, this is a recipe for failure and it often becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

  36. gaustad

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    Nov 18th 2008, 01:14

    nothing like collecting welfare in buffalo and dealing some drugs on the side.....throw in some pizza and subs every night, a heat subsidy, and you got yourself a decent life style.....now only if the Bills could win a few games

  37. STEEL

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    Nov 18th 2008, 01:31

    Instead of talking about the people who have a choice let's talk about the people who don't have a choice - " the children ". It is very convenient to leave them out of the discussion.

  38. pegger

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    Nov 18th 2008, 02:57

    And, Steel, that is the point. Not everyone prepares their kids for school before Kindergarten. Some don't even give the thought a passing glance. All this talk of choice and welfare and racism is merely a middle class (or more closely a middle American) perspective on the poor. The children have no choice about the parents they get nor the kind of environment they will grow up in. Unless there is something uniquely special about a child born into poverty or an exceptional family with middle class aspirations, most of them are doomed to remain life long members of the underclass. Sudies show that even with a Head Start experience kids lose the ground they gained by the second grade.

    I went to a school similar to yours in Buffalo but not in a neighborhood such as privileged. For half of my sixth grade year while my parents were between houses on Grand Island and Kenmore, I had to attend what was then PS 65 on Skillen St. in Riverside. It was my first and last experience going to school with minority kids (courtesy of the Ontario Street projects). It was the worst year in my life for it felt like a year. The upside was that I was the smartest kid in the entire sixth grade and learned very little even though I had excellent teachers. Said teachers were distracted by poorly behaved kids who had very poor habits not having by even that age to have the prerequisite skills to be ready to learn.

    Even at age 11 I knew that these kids were getting an inferior education and why. And, I reiterate, I had excellent teachers. So, even into mid childhood, where you lived played a significant role in student success. When you look at the whole package, children do not have choices. I strongly contend that those who profess that all children arrive at adulthood with even the right experiences, attitudes and social skills can make it by merely working hard and making the right choices is ludicrous. But, that's what happens when we deign to superimpose our values on others who do not play on the mythical level playing field we Americans would love to insist this country is.

  39. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 18th 2008, 08:40

    I have been involved in my community for many years and as a landlord I have first hand knowledge of the working and non-working poor. I have no illusions that they are all tragic victims but I also know quite well just how challengeing life can be without the middle class safety net so many take for granted. Poor people don't have the connections for good jobs or even housing. They don't always have dependable family members or even parents to help in an emergency or just as a mentor. There are some that take advantage but most work at crappy jobs (that we don't want) and are paid crappy wages. We as taxpayers subsidize their food, shelter, health care, etc. instead of demanding a decent working wage for all.

  40. benfranklin

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    Nov 18th 2008, 09:00

    blackrock... I find that I'm in agreement with much of what you write, until you make the statement (repeatedly) 'demanding a decent working wage for all'. Who are we demanding this from? My understanding of the job market is that it's a competitive place, where skills dictate compensation. If I'm missing something, please explain.

  41. georged

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    Nov 18th 2008, 09:50

    Blackrock, you are such a caring person. If you are so concerned go adopt a poor family in CrackRock. Stop complaining and do something.

  42. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 18th 2008, 12:52

    benfranklin- Presently taxpayers make up the difference when employers do not pay enough for a person to stay out of poverty. Raising the minimum wage would go a long ways towards reducing the need for taxpayer subsidies. The saving to government could be used to offset the increased cost to business (maybe a tax break). Business would benefit from a more stable and content worker and the taxpayer would benefit from less social services.

    georged- My community credentials are solid, Tell us what you have done for our city.

  43. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 18th 2008, 13:25

    pegger- well said, My experience living in a pretty poor neighborhood makes me skeptical of the comments made by white bread middle class folks. Their perception is not the reality and the complexity of the problem is much bigger than they see or care to admit.

  44. whynot

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    Nov 18th 2008, 13:59

    Pegger - Are you insinuating that poor parents are incapable of raising their children effectively? No child has a say in the choice of their birth parents, are you saying that we should remove children from poverty stricken homes to have them raised by more capable wealthy parents, sort of like the third world countries who sell their babies to adoption agencies to rich Americans can adopt them?

    BRL - You should know better. Get off your f...ing high horse already. Rich White Bread Middle Class folks just keepin' the brothers down. Right? You know the true struggles cuz you be keepin' it real by livin' in the city. You are all about telling everyone else what they should do with their money, but you still haven't addressed the root of the problems mentioned above.

    Are you that ignorant that you cannot see the role of the individual plays in being poor? You are all about blaming the system for letting the individual down, as someone explained above. Maybe the individual needs to own their situation and take steps to make it better instead of sitting by and waiting for one of the RICH WHITE BREAD MIDDLE CLASS to take care of their situation for them.

    Businesses would not benefit from a higher minimum wage, businesses already struggle to keep up with the minimum wage, SSI and other benefits that must be paid for all workers. It hits the small and mid-sized business owners the most. I know from your previous comments that you primarily see businesses as huge, faceless, greedy institutions that are only in existence to line the pockets of the executives at the expense of the laborers, but this is just not the case for most businesses. Most Americans are employed by small to mid-sized businesses, and these businesses struggle to keep up with the ever escalating burden placed on them from myopic government policies aimed at one particular subset of the population.

    The problem of poverty is huge, and most Americans understand that. What they don't understand is how someone can sit on their ass taking hand-outs from the government and can still feel that they are above a minimum wage job no matter what we pay in minimum wage. The same complaints existed when Minimum Wage was $2.25 an hour, and will exist if we raise it to $15.25 an hour.

    I am interested to see what your socialist oriented mind feels about HeatherSmiles' comment in the church thread. That is pretty scary stuff.

  45. Dangelo23

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    Nov 18th 2008, 14:40

    Buffalo is a big time poor city, no wonder people are so moody there. Everyone wants a good paying job and some just want a hand out and not too much help for either groups. No wonder people are still fighting with each other.

  46. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 18th 2008, 14:41

    Whynot- you are right, We gotta stop those crazy kids from choosing to be born to poor parents, what are they thinkin?

  47. whynot

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    Nov 18th 2008, 14:57

    BRL - Don't be an ass!

    What we need to do is stop blaming the system and do something about the parents. We have numerous services and programs for every child in NYS, but yet we still say that they are at a disadvantage and incapable of thriving.

  48. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 18th 2008, 17:48

    Very interesting comments. Heathersmiles angry rant about poor (read black) people making babies and living of the rest of us appeals to the base instinct in all of us. Tell them what they want to hear heather, that the poor are dragging us all down and it their own fault and the middle class are burdened by the hordes of poor people living large while we all go to work each day. Don't consider how complex this issue really is and certainly don't admit that we have created this "permanent underclass" from years of racism and segregation of the poor.

  49. carlmalone

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    Nov 18th 2008, 18:06

    Rocker: if you think the underclass was created by racism and segregation and accuse others of not being aware of the complexity, I think you need to dig a little deeper. It's not just segregation and racisim. Keep digging and find out how complex it really is

  50. carlmalone

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    Nov 18th 2008, 18:07

    Rocker: if you think the underclass was created by racism and segregation and accuse others of not being aware of the complexity, I think you need to dig a little deeper. It's not just segregation and racisim. Keep digging and find out how complex it really is

  51. TheWhyNotGuy

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    Nov 18th 2008, 18:13

    It's hard to demand that entry level McDonalds employees work hard and live within their means when we turn around and give a multimillion dollar welfare check to AIG executives so they can throw another retreat.

    Personal responsibility isn't just for poor people, and sometimes welfare queens wear suits from Brooks Brothers.

  52. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 18th 2008, 18:18

    carlmalone- never claimed it is the only reason, just that it is the one people find hard to accept.

  53. carlmalone

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    Nov 18th 2008, 18:35

    "Don't consider how complex this issue really is and certainly don't admit that we have created this "permanent underclass" from years of racism and segregation of the poor. " Read it yourself, i don't see room for other factors. Please explain the complexity and other factors

  54. BlackRockAdvocate

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    Nov 18th 2008, 18:40

    Mayor Griffin once quoted on AM Buffalo regarding why the Eastside was the last to be snowplowed: "The people in South Buffalo have to get up and go to work in the morning" he said.

  55. Sweetie

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    Nov 18th 2008, 18:55

    Blackrockers- gotta agree w/ Griffin on his snowplowing comment!! Why is their so much poverty and welfare on Eastside? It's easy to live broke in Buffalo, collect unemployment, welfare, food stamps, and get tons of tax breaks. Why work?? Just get fat eating wings and pizza, sit on your ass, steal from others and sell drugs ...good way to make a living in B-lo. The "suburb" people who seemed to get slammed in this blog topic a lot can pay all their hard earned money to taxes to support these lifestyles. If people felt more "heat" that they weren't going to get a "free ride" anymore from the govt, state, and city maybe it would light a fire under their ass to actually get a job and work!! Be productive and do something w/ themselves. There's no urgency when all we do is spoon feed them w/ benefits for being broke and keep them dependent on this support! In Toronto there are tons of homeless people b/c they aren't getting all the freebies like they do in this city. How many homeless people do you really see here...not nearly as many as in other cities. Our unemployed are sitting on couches watching TV while are tax money pays for it!

  56. meanoldman

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    Nov 18th 2008, 18:58

    sometimes i sit and wonder how many of the "POOR "people just wish they had a computer , so that they might join us in this debate!! turn off your power and heat , lets see whats more important, food , shelter , or sitting in your warm office telling the rest of the city what is the best thing they can do for there family!!! the segregation seems to be between us and those that are unable ,for whatever reason can't afford to be in our conversation!

  57. meanoldman

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    Nov 18th 2008, 19:41

    hey sweetie- look at the economy, how far do you think you are away from living like the tons of homeless in another country. if you look at a map you live to the east of a poverty stricken area.

  58. Sweetie

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    Nov 18th 2008, 19:55

    Well oldman- thats an "interesting" way of looking at it, doesn't make a heck of a lot of sense since every suburb in every city in the US is also sitting "east of a poverty stricken area "as well??!! As for people sitting in their office typing while the "poor" aren't included in our conversation, well i see a lot of libraries with public computers that our tax money pays for so these people can use them to actually find jobs or go on internet, yet when i am in the library they are almost always empty? Why is that?Maybe because these poor people don't want to find a job?! Maybe they like how they live. And also lets get a little more realistic or synical as you may say...how many of these people truly don't have a laptop of their own, either stolen or bought w/ some forms of funds they acquired? You give too much empathy to those who don't deserve it. I do truly feel bad for the poor families that have exhausted every mean to find work and really are ina bad state which is not their own fault. For the others, who are just there due to laziness, I have no sympathy at all or patience left for that.

  59. heathersmiles

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    Nov 18th 2008, 19:59

    HEY BLACKROCK! My definition of poor is not "Black"... why the hell would you even say something like that? Did you know that I grew up qualifying for public assistance, with most of my schoolmates and friends on welfare? Did you know that I have also lived in the city most of my life, grew up there, moved to Boston, lived in the city... yep, this white girl off the lake knows some African Americans, some poor, and even some hispanics.

    You are perpetuating the negative stereotypes. Maybe you equate poor with "Black" but that is your issue. Don't project your biased values on my comments. Jackass!

  60. Sweetie

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    Nov 18th 2008, 20:09

    Heathersmiles...you go girl!! I have been waiting to hear somebody tell that #!## off for a while with all his ignorant oppinions and statements!! Kudos to you!!

  61. sonyactivision

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    Nov 18th 2008, 20:24

    ^ You lot talk a lot about the lazy poor people in the East Side so here's a question: where are the jobs for these people in the East Side? What jobs didn't they apply for? Is there a major employer in the hood that's hiding somewhere behind all those boarded up storefronts? Oh wait a minute, the jobs are all out in Amherst and Clarence. Uh Oh. The bus service sucks and gas and car upkeep are expensive. And forget about finding a place to live...never mind, best to sit there "getting fat eating wings and pizza". Maybe the reason they don't make the choices you did is that they don't want to become hateful and mean-spirited like you.

  62. carlmalone

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    Nov 18th 2008, 20:34

    HS: Don’t come down so hard the rock. He’s showing his depth of understand of a complex subject by simply dumbing it down to black vs. white and following it up with incoherent attack applying his own botched logic showing a complete misunderstanding of the subject matter. I give him/her an A for ignorance and B+ for a faulty cognitive mental process. I second Jackass!

  63. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 18th 2008, 20:37

    heather- maybe your "definition of poor is not black" but your 18:48 post starts out with a crime on Jefferson Ave. and continues to "too many people making babies" and to "GET A JOB, walmart target, etc are not racist" . then its on to "just because you are African American doesn't mean you are going to be poor" and finally you quote statisics "birth rate for minority and so called oppressed is 40 times higher than affluent/ white" Sounds like your talking about black people to me. But hey,at least you found a kindred spirit in Sweetie

  64. davvid

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    Nov 18th 2008, 20:38

    Of course thee Buffalo flaw is the "hyperlocal" viewpoint. We could point to someone on the street that isn't "dressed for success" and wonder why or point to some mother telling her child to "shut the fuck up" and wonder why. We could call them lazy and then watch as more and more people become "lazy" as we continue to lose jobs. To a person that can no longer afford the food at Wegmans--we can suggest that they go to Big Lots or Aldis. To a person without a home computer(and a library of pirated software) we could suggest that they go to the public library. We could offer up anecdotes and band-aids based on lazy logic or we could evolve and notice emerging technologies, business models, economic trends, demographic/political trends etc. and capitalize, carve out a place for ourselves, make money, gain cultural and political influence and start to rebuild the fabric of our community.

  65. meanoldman

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    Nov 18th 2008, 20:41

    pizza and wings suck in Amherst! rent is too high. stay fat and mean. i got a job boarding up houses for people that gave up on the city!!!

  66. buffawakening

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    Nov 18th 2008, 20:53

    i think the poor have a fantastic opertunity to move up the social ladder in america. you get free public schooling up to the age of 18. then after that, the government will pay IN FULL for your college tution if you go to a SUNY school. state schools also are very lenient when accepting teenagers from inner city schools, as they know many of the schools themselves are failing. what more oportunity can you have?

  67. blackrocklifer

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    Nov 18th 2008, 21:02

    buffawakening- you ask "what more opportunity can you have?" that's easy, don't be born poor. But I do agree public education is at least avaliable to the poor. Having the support and home stability to see it through can be tough for many.

  68. meanoldman

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    Nov 18th 2008, 21:32

    if i'm not mistaken we are all born broke ,naked and poor . it's our parents that take and teach each of us the value of knowledge, hard work,values and self esteem. when you were born did you know if you were black or white? any of you were born by chance! just remember when we die, we leave this world , broke , naked and poor.the same as we entered!!!

  69. pegger

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    Nov 18th 2008, 21:35

    Whynot, I reread my comments and nowhere can I find an implication that children should be removed from poverty homes. My sad point is that the kids get what they get. They have no choice good or bad. To think that all parents regardless of race and class are equal is also ludicrous. Here is one that you can really bite into: stupidity is inherited. All psychometric studies say it is so! Check out "The Bell Curve." It proves that the old adages such as "The apple doesn't fall to far from the tree," and "You can't breed work horses and get race horses," just might have some validity. Did you hear me advocating for forced sterilization? I surely hope not!