Growing Up City #2: First Contact

As I noted in Part One, this uber-urbanist started out as a suburbanite. Until seventh grade I lived in the Ridgewood Village section Lackawanna. This was a neighborhood built after WWII on the eastern edge of the steel city to house returning vets. After a short rental period my grandfather took advantage of an offer to purchase. He bought a two unit building on Fairdale Road. We lived there next door to my grandparents in what was to me an idyllic place. At night you could see the orange glow of the steel mill to the west but this was not the harsh Lackawanna that people imagined. It was a planned community of multi family buildings ranging from two to four apartments each. They were cheaply built but comfortable. The houses were arranged along a series of roads ringing a central park with a community center. The yards were big and there were countless kids. 2 candy stores and an ice cream stand were nearby and the woods surrounding nearby Smokes Creek offered great childhood adventures.
School was also nearby housed the mildly Art Deco styled McKinley Elementary. I walked there studying every detail of the fairly plain houses along the way. In the sixties a school like this on the eastern side of Lackawanna had no African American students and all the talk among students was of bussing. They were obviously parroting the discussions of the parents but the prospect of something so awful as bussing struck fear in all of us. Many insisted that they would not attend school if bussing was instituted. Bussing brought to all of our minds the images of the riots seen on TV that we all knew to be common in the far off and mysterious city of Buffalo. All in all the neighborhood was nice but offered little for a budding architect like myself to consume. That far off city was scary in my mind but it was a thrilling place to go and I never backed off a chance to accompany a parent or grandparent on trip downtown or to Broadway Fillmore. One very vivid early memory was of the Ellicott Square Building. This building was a bit off the beaten path in that most shopping was further north. One time we got off the bus in front of its highly sculpted Main Street entry. I could not believe the magnificence filling my vision. Every inch seemed covered with incredible detail including stone vines crawling up its huge columns. Before I could take it all in I was quickly whisked away by a parent to whatever errand we were on and for years afterward craved another view of that masterpiece.
Often I would take a jam packed bus to downtown with my grandmother. She did not drive so this was they way we went, passing the massive industrial complexes and slums along the way. I remember seeing a beautiful old brick building being torn down on one trip. It had magnificent arched windows. I just could not understand why you would tear down something with arched windows. I remember a diner we would always eat at. It had a corner revolving door with a thick shinny coat of bright red paint. It was very lively with shoppers and business people. I remember bending my neck to take in the shear cliff like wall of the Liberty building rising off Court Street.
Main Street thronged with people, news stands occupied every corner, and the stores went on and on with great glass windows full of stuff. Downtown was lively in the sixties and even into the seventies but, in my mind the city had a darkness which I can still see. Coal soot still covered many of the old buildings back then giving a grimness to the streets that makes it understandable how people wanted to get rid of the old and bring in the new. I remember my first gimps of the gleaming white M&T Plaza. WOW! Its clean bright white lines shooting straight up were so beautiful. It was so new and fresh. I wanted everything to be modern. At the same time I came to understand the grandeur of old Buffalo. On one city trip my father brought me to the Statler. The outside was dark and forbidding. I thought it looked pretty crummy, certainly no M&T. On entering its marble clad, crystal chandeliered lobby I could not believe my eyes. Columns, arches, color and murals everywhere - was this the same building? The experience was transformative. I had a very similar experience later on when I was first introduced to our new home in the Elmwood Village. (That story for another segment).
These early city experiences are most certainly responsible for setting my love for urban living in stone. Even so, as a child I was not ready to move from my beloved Ridgewood Village. The city was still very strange and forbidding. It was filled with Black people and hippies whom, we were informed via TV, were not up to anything good. Also the city did not have any of my friends. But eventually the time came, we were moving to the city, something few people did back then. This was not good! Or so I thought.
Next up Part 3 - Massive Change

As we mentioned in our previous post, we’re in the process of changing the Buffalo Rising site. We’re almost there as we expect to launch the new site on Friday, December 19th.
In the meantime, posting will be light as we log new stories in the new publishing system which will only be viewable when we launch on Friday.
As always, we appreciate our users’ patience as we make this transition but we promise it will be well worth it. With faster load times, a comment view …
Caroline Kennedy was in town for a visit with our mayor yesterday. A possible choice to succeed US Senator Hillary Rodham Clinton, Kennedy's name has been mentioned along with that of Attorney General Andrew Cuomo (son of former New York Governor Mario Cuomo) and our own Byron Brown, among others.
Certainly, Kennedy has "been around politics" all of her life, which is to say she was born into a family of politicos and lived in the White House--neither of which would necessarily f …
Free light rail rides on downtown's above ground section could be derailed thanks to the Niagara Frontier Transportation Authority's budget mess. That is the news coming out of a Buffalo Place meeting this morning. Facing a budget shortfall and reduced State operating assistance, the NFTA is scrambling for new revenue sources and is contemplating charging for rides along the lengthy downtown pedestrian mall.
Well it is Christmas time in the city and the NFTA helped put people and especially children into the mood in a very festive and fun way. One of my favorite memories of childhood was taking the train downtown with my grandfather. I would gaze out the windows and watch the tunnel speed by. It always felt like we were going a million miles an hour.
Then there was the ability to stand up and walk around during the ride without the need to be strapped down. It was always a fun time … 




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gaustad
{deleted - I only side with hippi liberals that vote for Obama}
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sambo
Steel - You mean your not even from inside the City limits? Isn't that against BRO policy?
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NorPark
Oh my, the Ridgewood Village, i spent a good year there with a buddy, on Scotia. It may not currently be what it used to be, it may not be classy in the least of senses, but the 360/mo rent i was splitting with a friend, THAT was nice.
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Colin
Poor Gaustad. What's a "hippi?"
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STEEL
Sambo,
What BRO policy?
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blackrocklifer
My experience growing up in the city during the 60's and 70's was dominated by racial tension. Busing was the issue of the day and was the topic of many heated discussions. Politicians openly ran on anti-busing platforms and black people were not welcome here in Black Rock and Riverside. Cross busing was not acceptable to whites so instead it was decided to bus only black kids into white neighborhoods. This did not go well and a couple of years later blew up at our high school (Riverside). Kids were attacked, buses were stoned, and threats were everywhere. The National Guard occupied the school and calmed things down but it took until our senior year to finally start to even talk. I think in the end it was the right thing to do but at the time it was not very pleasant and brought out worst of both sides.
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pegger
As I recall, the former School 65 in Riverside was already integrated by the 60's due to the student population from Schaeffer Village on Ontario Street. Whatever the race, one could always tell which kids came from that public housing. It was, at that time, a real slum with no ground cover other than raw dirt. The buildings appeared to be ready for the wrecking ball. But they still stand as an edifice to our tax dollars at work or, a fine exanple of putting layers of lipstick on a pig.
But, downtown was a thriving bustle of activity especially considering that it was the only way to get to decent stores and public transportation was readily accessible. Then along came urban sprawl, the suburban malls, and a vacant downtown. Kinda spooky down there on a Saturday nowadays!
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sambo
NOTE: Sarcasm to follow...
The policy of posting only positive "articles" about the City of Buffalo. Well when I say City of Buffalo you all know all I am referring to is Elmwood Village, Hertel Ave., Downtown and Allentown....oh and South Buffalo on occasion. Because lets just face it the rest of the City is just useless and not so bike friendly. I figured because of this theme touted by such a publication an LA native like yourself would be shunned by due to the lack of pure City blood running in your veins. I mean the Ridgewood Village isn't like anything on the garden walk.
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chrishawley
Love this story, Steel!
My own introduction to Buffalo and life-long love affair with the city came about after a single day-long trip my Aunt Carole gave me of Buffalo architecture, restaurants, and museums when I was 13. It was, as you write, transformative. I swore, to the amusement of my family, that I would move back to Buffalo from South Carolina one day and it would be my home for life.
And here I am.
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STEEL
Chris,
That is a big win for Buffalo
Sambo,
You have not actually been reading the BRO stories have you
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sambo
Oh christ, learn to take a joke. Trust me if its not happening in the trendy parts of the City BRO could care less. I mean whats with the By Line nicknames. If the City of Buffalo is truly going to rise its going to take more than the people in The Elmwood Village, Allentown, & Hertel.
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STEEL
Sambo,
Do you self a favor and go back and read a few months worth of BRO stories.
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sambo
I forgot to mention that you people have never had a shitty meal with under your YUM! section. What are you trading positive reviews for a free meal? The best part of BRO is this, an open forum to talk about whats happening.
But...
It's not just the people in the City that make Buffalo great, all of WNY makes Buffalo what it is. (If that makes sense.) The people of WNY are real and gritty, and like the truth.
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STEEL
Problem is Sambo, most people in WNY have no idea that there is anything good about the city.
Do you have an idea for a BRO story? You should submit it. What is going on in other parts of the city that you want people to know about?
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crisa
STEEL. What does "uber" mean? What and where is the building in the above photo?
About Lackawanna--what I remember of my childhood is my Dad driving past the steel plant through the stench and the rust colored air which settled uglyly on all the buildings and land. When my Dad drove us through there on our way to the beach, I saw many children playing outside projects that are long gone. Today I wonder how many of those kids died of lung cancer.
Here is one of my deeply implanted life-long memories as a kid growing up in Buffalo at a time when families actually lived, not "stayed", in one house at least long enough for one generation to raise the next.
Although my first memories started out too young to put two and two together, they expanded into young adulthood and created a complete picture that constantly moving around would have obliterated.
When I was very young, my family lived next door to an elderly couple, Mr. and Mrs. R. One day they had an old garage with those old barndoor-like dragging doors, then it was gone!
Next, Mrs. R., a really nice lady willing to stop what she was doing to talk with a small child, was growing and busily attending to the most beautiful rosebushes I have ever seen. They filled my world with a wonderful odor that translated to a happiness that only a Mrs.-R.-privileged child can feel.
After a while, Mrs. R. was gone and so were her roses. I'm sure I was told that she had gone to heaven without understanding where heaven could be.
Years later, as a teenager, I asked what had happen to all those gorgeous rosebushes. My Mom said that Mr. R. had them carted away because he didn't want to keep taking care of them. I don't remember asking what being "carted away" meant for those beauties. I know I hoped such flowers, so well cared for and loved, were transplanted but I didn't ask--my believing flowers have feels too the same as me, so I didn't want to know!!!
In my same teen years, my Mom had an arrangement with both Mr. R. and his adult son to "Keep an eye" on Mr. R. next door. What Mom, Mr. R. and his son worked out was that Mr. R. would do what he always did; keep his kitchen curtain open so my Mom (and the rest of us) could see him sitting in his chair under his light reading the evening newspaper in that visible corner of his livingroom. For years, it was our family's habit to glance into his house in the evening and see him reading.
One morning, as we all were in the process of waking up, Mom stopped making breakfast and made a phone call--that was very unusual. I remember her going to the phone because, keep in mind, that was lightyears before cell phones and so much telephone usage. None of the rest of us had looked in Mr. R's window that morning-- I learned years later that Mom deliberately distracted us. In the meantime, we all left the house.
When I returned from school, I was told that Mr. R. had died in that chair in his sleep. Mom saw him in the early morning, his light still on, him slumped in his cumfy old chair. I was glad I didn't see that before going off to school.
My memory is of him with his glasses forward on his nose, head tipped back, reading his paper--funny, but I remembered him yesterday when I put on my own bifocals, sat back in the recliner and read our newspaper!
Today, both houses, so filled with my memories, are still standing--barely.
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sambo
"Problem is Sambo, most people in WNY have no idea that there is anything good about the city."
That couldn't be farther from the truth. Who do you think is filling downtown restaurant, filling the seats at Shea's, packing Lafayette Square on Thursdays. In my opinion the majority of people living in WNY are grass roots people. Pizza Hut just closed a number of locations in WNY This just goes to show that people in WNY would rather spend money at a Mom and Pop restaurant rather than a chain. Not every Mom and Pop restaurant has great food. My point is i know for a fact that some of your "writers" have given negative reviews of area restaurants. BRO chooses not to publish them, WHY?
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crisa
Folks. Besides which place to eat is best, which neighborhood deserves attention and which do not, finding ways to "feed" "starving artists" and all that sort of stuff that fragments a topic, there is something very interesting to learn about that doesn't come up here but would be dramatically ensightful if it did.
It's thought consuming. It's thought provoking. Its about Microsoft. It's about BlueTooth. It's about cell phones too. But most of all it's all about this 'dawning of the age of the Internet'. It's sort of about the art of doodling. And, almost as if it comes about in time for halloween,,,
it's about MENDLEBROT'S MONSTER--it's oh sooo fractal too!!!
Not only do I wonder what would happen if it became a topic here at BRO, but, well, I guess that would not work...
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