Buffalo is a Choice

Buffalo is a Choice

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Buffalo is a choice. That is my current thesis. I have been pondering this for some time, and the more I consider it, the more that it seems true. I have witnessed many friends over the past few years, as we all do, leave to follow career paths in other cities. I wish them well, and hope that they find what they are looking for, wherever they decide that they need to move to achieve that goal. Often, I hear how they miss Buffalo, and how they wish they could come back. Buffalo is a special place, in all of our hearts, and its a place we all wish we could live and be successful in.

But, what does this have to do with my thesis that Buffalo is a choice? Well, at the same time that there are those who feel that they have to leave to start a career, or to advance in a career, there are those of us who will go out of our way to have a career and be successful, here in Buffalo. I myself found out the hard way how difficult it is to get into my chosen field of Urban Planning in Buffalo. As many have commented in other posts, Buffalo really does not do much planning, and part of that is because we do not have the positions in government and the private sector to do quality planning. Buffalo graduates numerous Urban Planners from Buffalo State and UB each year, with few if any jobs locally for them to move into. Most have to leave the area to help plan other cities and towns. So, after a year of trying to get a position in Urban Planning, I had a choice, move to another area, or find another career path that will keep me here in Buffalo, my city of choice.

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Some of those who have chosen to make Buffalo a Choice - The group from Monday night's Buffalo Rising Mixer at Nektar.

I chose to stay in Buffalo, since Buffalo was the reason I became involved in planning in the first place. I guess I am lucky in that I can still be involved in planning as a citizen, and also be successful in another career path. But if this was not the case, I still believe I would have chosen Buffalo over relocation to another city. Is this being naive? Some would say so. But, I choose Buffalo for the quality of life, to be with my family, and to share the great experiences I have with my friends. I chose Buffalo for the people, the amenities, the culture, the architecture, the nightlife, and a myriad of other reasons. There is more to life than money, and although I found an excellent job in another field that pays significantly more than I would have made as a planner, I would have found a way to stay here and make a life here.

So I ask, is Buffalo a choice? I feel it is. We are not a booming economy, where thousands of people are looking to move here each month. It can be tough to find a good job or career path here, but if you look hard enough, you might just find that place where you fit. Do any of you share similar experiences, or have family and friends that have? Or, am I the crazy one who to chose to stay and seek out a different path towards success?

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What Others Have To Say

  1. chris69

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    Nov 21st 2007, 03:44

    Buffalo is not a booming economy but it isnt even a stagnant economy. There are pre-war buildings that are being rediscovered on the inner city neighborhoods but there are vast stretches of small WWII factory homes and cape cods built for returning vets that are for all intensive purposes to small for the current middle and upper classes that we need to attract to our city.

    Everywhere we look Buffalo is entrenched with special interests, unions, political machines, patronage, inside business deals and of course albany controlled regional authorities.

    Everywhere we look in Buffalo good planning is absent and the public voice comes out not at the beginning but at the 11th hour when the fight is its hardest.

    Studies show Buffalo needs 2x as much new Class A office space, Class A warehouse and industrial space but its not getting built.

    Studies show Buffalo needs 2x as much new residential development and this is getting built at half the speed.

    Out light rail isnt getting extended and high speed rail is only being targeted for downstate, our ports are ignored like our grain elevators.

    Small Business incubators are missing at most of our major colleges and so are neighborhood office parks.

    Buffalos high tech industry is but a skeleton compared to neighborhing cities like Rochester when we should be leaders in networking, communication (voice and data), logistics, supply chain management, international trade, material science and nanotechnology, etc.

    Buffalos media industry is starved and so is Buffalos Convention and Tourism industry

    For everything wonderful in Buffalo....families have to be employed and employable....and for 35 years we have been getting lip service.....and corruption.

  2. mmiller

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    Nov 21st 2007, 06:33

    Steve, good article. I think it's great that there are those who have stayed, but equally as important, there are many of us who have returned. And love it more now than they ever did.

    I didn't appreciate anything about Buffalo until I lived in Charlotte for four years. Not that Charlotte is bad, it's just that Buffalo has so much going for it that you don't realize it until you live somewhere else. In fact, I suggest to some people that want to move elsewhere to go ahead, with the disclaimer that they'll be back someday.

  3. urbanesque

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    Nov 21st 2007, 06:36

    Steve, I understand where you are coming from; however I disagree with your conclusion about the economy and the status of Buffalo. You have identified a need, something that could improve the quality of life for all Buffalo residents. You have the background, desire, and skills required to fill that need. You have hundreds of local community groups, non-profit organizations, quasi-government agencies, and (of course) the government, that all could use your specific skills. Why don't you figure out how to carve that niche for yourself, or partner with a group of professionals in parallel fields to offer a full complement of services?

    Buffalo is a great market for entrepreneurs, the things you mention in your article highlight why this is so. We choose to focus on the negative and on the things that we don't have, instead of on the things that we do. We choose to dwell on the lack of traditional jobs and legacy careers, we choose to focus on the inefficiencies of government, the missteps and errors of the past, and on the lack of change for certain key projects and areas. The perspective that we take on life is a choice, and that choice is the lens that we use to see the environment around us. It could be cynical, pollyannaish, realistic, optimistic, or pessimistic; all have positive and negative aspects. I run through the gamut of perspectives depending on the situation and frame of mind, this is human nature. The beautiful thing about human nature is that we have the ability to change perspective if we so choose.

    I think that you are sitting on a phenomenal opportunity in Buffalo. Reach out an explore that space in more depth and detail. Send me a PM if you want to discuss in more detail.

  4. Joshua

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    Nov 21st 2007, 08:16

    I studied Computer Information Systems and it was very difficult to find a job in the Buffalo market, unless you know someone. Buffalo is a place where employers want to hire those with experience, but not pay them what they are worth. Buffalo needs more jobs that start at the ground floor, hiring younger people to grow with the company.

    I was able to find a job doing similar work, software support for credit union software. It is very interesting and always keeps me on my toes. It is not networking or hardware support, but that is ok, since it was the job that kept me in Buffalo.

    I had a hard time giving up the possibility of staying in Buffalo, I kept pushing and pushing. Buffalo needs people to believe in this area and start up some businesses, like telecommunications or some sort of technology businesses.

    I am very happy to be in Buffalo, the housing in cheap; it only takes 20 mins to get anywhere you want with hardly no traffic jams... Well you get my point.

    As I sign off - LET'S GO BUFF-A-LO!

  5. wizardofza

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    Nov 21st 2007, 08:44

    Joshua said "the housing in cheap; it only takes 20 mins to get anywhere you want with hardly no traffic jams".

    And this is probably the main reason why there is no demand for urban planners in the Buffalo area :/

  6. al-alo

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    Nov 21st 2007, 08:49

    Steve & Joshua (actually, probably everybody),

    dont get too disheartened about the job market. my brother who doesnt live in buffalo has been looking for a job for 7 months - and he's a lot smarter than me (not a high bar). he was the validictorian in HS, and has a BA from johns hopkins and a masters from nyu. that and he is willing to relocate. so far, only one interview.

    me, i got lucky, i had an internship that eventually led to a job in my major (ish). tho, i am underpaid by 25-50%. but here in buffalo, i can make it while i look for something with a little more money. basically im a subsistance homeowner till then.

    i think its fustrating to a lot of people. they have this energy and love for the city, begging to be channeled to a job and building a community, but there are few outlets.

  7. chiknlil

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    Nov 21st 2007, 09:05

    Al-alo - Underpaid? Compared to what measure? Everyone I met in Virginia felt that they were undepaid, even when they were pulling in six figures as a mid-level network admin or junior project manager for a defense contractor. They were always broke, lived with roommates throughout their 20s and into their 30s, sometimes even after they were married. I looked for a job for 4 months and had several offers in different cities, but I chose the offer in Buffalo because I felt like I could actually get ahead here. I could have a nice house and a decent life without having to worry about the what-ifs that plagues people in the bigger cities. What if I lose my job, what if I am in an accident and can't work, what if my credit card is stolen and I have to pay an extra $500 this month. People live so close to the margin that there is little room for error, you are one health issue or job cut away from going broke. I've seen it happen to scores of friends, neighbors, acquaintances and colleagues in 2000 and 2001. It was devastating.

    I agree that we need to develop more outlets for the collective positive energy. Maybe we should set-up a CCC type project for the people of Buffalo. Who knows?

  8. scooter

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    Nov 21st 2007, 09:14

    Born and raised in Buffalo......I moved to Philly then to North Carolina.......looking for something better.

    I didn't find it. It was just as challenging to find good jobs in those cities and i'm very well qualified. I did make more money in both cities but lived just the same.....due to a higher cost of living. Living in NC sucked, it was one big boring suburb, living in philly was like living on the worst street on the east side, my apt was across the street from Temple U and a nine iron from city hall.

    I moved home, found a great job, bought a beautiful inexpensive home, eat at some of the best rest., drink as some cool bars, sail on a big a$$ lake, ski at a world class resort, visit art meuseums, broadway shows and i love that i'm close to my family. A day doesn't go by that I can't find something cool and exciting to do.

    I'm happy to be back in Buffalo........many of my friends have moved away.......all of them miss it. In the past year I've had three of them move back home after years away, and all of them already have good jobs. I think in the upcoming year we'll see even more move back.

    I think the tide is turning in buffalo.......we've seen more construction in the past few years then we've seen in the previous few decades. It feels as if more businesses are expanding and there are more jobs to be had. My firm just hired three new people for new positions.

    Buffalo Rocks. The grass is not always greener on the other side.

  9. SteveP

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    Nov 21st 2007, 09:17

    Im just wondering if you feel the same about Buffalo if you lived in any other city for an extended period of time. Once you leave, you see buffalo in an entirely new perspective. Jobs are too difficult to find, once you've lived the nightlife its pretty stagnant, politics are more corrupt than usual and its miserable 4-6 months out of the year. I suggst trying on a different city and then see if Buffalo still has these positive qualities,

    I used to want to come back, but not much anymore. If its difficult to meet ppl in a city such as DC or ATL, think how hard it is to reestablish friends and friend circles in a place where everyone knows everyone. I would hate to go through life living in one city when there are so many more to explore out there.

  10. NewBuffalo

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    Nov 21st 2007, 09:19

    There are PLENTY of jobs in Buffalo. I stayed in the area after graduating from college. I have worked in engineering for 23 yrs here. I have been out of work for a total of 5 days during that 23 yr period. I allso hold a real estate license, plenty busy there as well. Try becoming a pharmacist here, pay starts around $100,000 a yr with a signing bonus. Housing is also cheap. We may have higher taxs but hopefully that will change also with all the public outcry. Buffalo is a "best kept" secret that is slowly getting out. everything from here is uphill. The people that have stayed here will benefit from the "Rise of Buffalo"

  11. Drew

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    Nov 21st 2007, 09:26

    I grew up in Pittsburgh, and lived in Philly and Western Ohio. I am so glad that I chose Buffalo.

  12. al-alo

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    Nov 21st 2007, 09:28

    chiknlil,

    im making in the very very very low 20's - that is with occasional overtime/extra hours. no pension. no retirement. i can have a 401k or keep my expensive healthcare, great choice, no? same boat as every one else. but here i can make it, and with my wife, we can even own a house. having a family? well, that could be a lot harder. actually, having the fam is the easy part. paying for it, there is the trouble.

    im not suggesting that i make 80k, but cmon, help a buffalo supporter out. perhaps we should advert here for us pro-buffalo progressive type folks here.

    lemme start:

    handsome (as long as you are nearsighted and its dark) married male seeking creative meaningful work. willing to relocate (no, not really). trained in museum and history work (stop laughing). extensive management experience. can learn anything, unless it involves finding the cosine. proficient with mac and pc applications such as word, excel, and solitaire.

  13. flyguy

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    Nov 21st 2007, 09:36

    Buffalo needs more entry level legitimate jobs to get the young college grads into the job market to stay in the area. It needs a greater diversity of job offereings as well at the entry level. One of the greatest issues I found in Buffalo was the lack of diversity in jobs. Secondly so many people are looking to get employed or get out of underemployment that the competition is ridiculous for the jobs you can actually start a life on and because the competition is so fierce employers know they can offer peanuts and someone will take it because of their choice to live in Buffalo. After a year of looking for a job in ones field personal economics takes over and the fact that we dont live forever. Driven people like to see progress in their career and life. You shouldnt need to wait for a year to end up underemployed in a field you arent very familiar with and arent educated in just to wait for another year to see if maybe by chance you luck out and get a job in the area. In the meantime you are in your late 20's, havent landed a job in your field, havent much structure in your life or responsibility, no money in the bank and then employers look at you funny because you have no job experience in the field you have been wanting to get into and have educated yourself for. People dont typically pursue bachelors and masters degrees in a field only to take a job in another field, drop their dreams or contribute only as a citizen. We educated ourselves to be the best we can be, to be informed about, and be good at our choosen professions, not to take the next best thing. I miss Buffalo tremendously and hope to come back to live someday but I ended up in a point in my life where I just had to go. I have a planning background from both BuffState and UB and you gotta get your start at some point as waiting around for that local job to come your way doesnt look good on a resume when an interviewer says what have you been doing for the last 2 years since college I see you have no experience in this field? My interests in planning like yours stemmed solely from Western New York and Buffalo in particular and my heart and home is still in the Buffalo area as far as I am concerned. But conditions be as they are in the Buffalo area I am making a life down here in Virginia and no i'm not complaining about benig underpaid as was suggested above (about Virginians from Buffalo). And NO its not all about money either but people go to school to educate themselves and make a life for themselves. My interests were to choose a career where I could help communities improve, be more livable and enjoyable, aesthetically appealing and exciting, vibrant and planning has been a passion of mine since I was probably 12 or 13 years old. Good times.

  14. flyguy

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    Nov 21st 2007, 09:41

    I agree life is great in Buffalo if you have a good job. Good luck without one though.

  15. Jules

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    Nov 21st 2007, 09:54

    Drew--

    You grew up in Pittsburgh? Have you been back lately? It's pretty amazing. It's what Buffalo should be doing in a lot of respects. There is a booming shopping area where a former brownfield used to stand. They built their major league sports stadiums in the city. They are converting old warehouses in the Strip District into lofts at breakneck speed. And they are becoming an incredibly bike-friendly city.

    As someone who has lived in NYC, Boston and then Pittsburgh, and never wanted to leave Pittsburgh--if Buffalo took some lessons from our neighbor to the south we'd be much further along

  16. seatopants

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    Nov 21st 2007, 10:14

    Born and raised in Western New York. Buffalo is decidedly NOT a choice for me. Locked in by chronic and acute debilitating health issues, I can't find a sensible way to leave not only Buffalo, but New York State entirely. Why would I, laboring under the poverty level disability income I scrape by on, CHOOSE to live in the second poorest city in the nation? I want to work as much as health allows for the self-respect, if not improved income, but Buffalo is a stingy city for those who can't operate at optimum levels of employment completion. There are some great things about this area, but not enough to make my continued presence a choice. Waterfront development and shopping is meaningless to me and thousands of other INVISIBLE disabled people in this city. All these plans depend upon the now firmly dis-proven Reagan-omics of trickle-down theory. The benefits and wealth pool right where they begin; in the desperately (to keep it "in the family") privileged backyards.

  17. rubygreta

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    Nov 21st 2007, 10:42

    Hey seatopants, let's blame RONALD REAGAN for all of our troubles.

    Let me explain trickle down economics to you. Some guy comes up with a business and hits it rich (still legal to get rich in the United States). You would like to tax him at 75% and have the government redistribute his money. I would rather have him keep a much larger share and build a mansion. When he builds the mansion, he will directly employ roofers, landscapers, painters, movers, carpenters, electricians, plumbers, kitchen designers, sheetrockers, masons, architects, and others. He will also buy a ton of furniture (the furniture salepeople will get a nice commission). Others who will get a share are a real estate appraiser, a title person, an attorney and others. How about the granite miner in Vermont who will provide the kitchen countertops? I have probably only listed 50% of the beneficiaries that result from this mansion.

    I have zero class envy. If someone works hard and makes a killing (legally), so be it. And it is good for the economy.

  18. al-alo

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    Nov 21st 2007, 10:49

    ruby,

    that rich guy is probably taxed less of a percentage than you or i.

  19. Spaulding97

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    Nov 21st 2007, 10:59

    I was born and raised in Buffalo, then after college I moved down to Orlando. After a short time I realized how much I missed Buffalo. Orlando was the complete opposite. It was fake. It was all chain restaurnts, stores, hotels, etc. Nothing that made it stand out from Charlotte or Atlanta. There wasn't the mom & pop restaurant or store that you would find here.It had no heart. I knew after a short time that I couldn't be happy there.

    I also have some friends down in Charlotte. I've been down there a dozen times, and it's the same case as Orlando. Everything looks the same.

    I moved back and found a good paying job (better than in Orlando) and haven't been happier. I like to think of myself as a leader, not a follower. When I have children I can show them what Buffalo is truly about, and they would want to stay here and not follow the bogus trend.

  20. rubygreta

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    Nov 21st 2007, 11:06

    And with respect to the photo, how about cars on Main Street? What the heck were they thinking in the 1970's.

  21. chiknlil

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    Nov 21st 2007, 11:07

    True story: My ex-girlfriend's dad is a masonry contractor in Leesburg, VA, he started out as a laborer and worked his way into his own business, after 15 years in business he decided to change his strategy from building walls and fireplaces to creating real brick facades on newly built houses in Virginia. He now has 40 people working for him, all making $60 - $100k per year, he was pulling in just around $750K a year in 2003, all from new build houses in the DC suburbs. We used to speak at length about his success, and he always said that he owed it all to Ronald Reagan and his trickle down theory. He would say, "find the faucet and put your bucket directly underneath it". He made his money off the prosperity of other people in that area, this year was tough for him, but he still manages to do well and he loves what he does. Rubygreta's comments reminded me of that story.

    Al-alo - I am truly shocked at that salary, I apologize for my ignorance because I had no idea that companies were paying in the sub-$30k range for skilled jobs these days. That is just a shame. You should touch base with a friend of mine who does career coaching, he helped me to get on a different path and I have been happier and making more money ever since.

  22. Marti

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    Nov 21st 2007, 11:33

    Great post, Stip. It worries me a bit, though, that you don't seem to have heard about Buffalo By Choice, a community of those who are in Buffalo because they want to be AND those who are not in Buffalo but wish they were. IE -- who choose Buffalo.

    We send out a sweet little e-newsletter every other week (go to www.buffalobychoice.com to sign up - it's free), to continue getting the Good News about Buffalo out there, much as does Buffalo Rising, and we get together monthly at Happy To Be Here Hours at local watering holes. The last such gathering was Monday night at City Grill, where Andrew Parrish Mitchell inspired the crowd of 30-40 Buffalo boosters with his initiatives to address the HIV/AIDS crisis in Buffalo. If you add up the folks at the BRO gig at Nektar and those at City Grill (I tried to be at both!), you can see the kind of crowds we draw. Amy Kedron of Buffalo First was equally inspirational at our gathering in October. The December Happy To Be Here Hour will be on Monday, December 17th at North (in The Lenox at North and Delaware) from 6:00-8:00.

    The response to Buffalo By Choice (nearly 2,000 subscribers in just two months) and to Buffalo Old Home Week over these past two years (Buffalo Homecoming: Buffalo Old Home Week 2008 this year, on June 26-29 -- mark your calendar and make your travel plans NOW!) proves your thesis and answers your question -- yes, Buffalo IS a choice, one that more and more people are making. I hear from these folks every day of the week, and number among them myself. Gone for 32 years, I am so glad to be back in Buffalo that I am making a full time job out of promoting our beautiful City by the Lake. In fact, my publishing company has a new book about Buffalo hot off the press: Postcard Views: A Walk Down Main Street, Buffalo, New York, circa 1910 (available at local bookstores and at www.buffaloheritage.com). More than 70 postcards from the early 1900s show what a vibrant, progressive bustling city Buffalo was just 100 years ago -- and what it can and will be once again. Urban centers have a life cycle. Buffalo is now on the rise once again, providing we all pitch in and make it so.

    Yes, I am shamelessly promoting my endeavors -- newsletters, books, events...but they are all designed to address Buffalo's image problem by dispelling myths and telling the Good News for a change. There is a great deal of good news to tell, and I am having a blast reaching out to those that choose Buffalo and creating a community of kindred spirits who actively work on behalf of this great city.

  23. jerkface

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    Nov 21st 2007, 11:37

    I have found that the percieved need to leave your home town in order to achieve "success" is not unique to Buffalo. I think it's a natural thing to think that you have to move away from home to make it on your own. I went out of state for school and met people from all over who would never go back to their home town's after school. That includes DC, NYC, Boston, etc. Granted, that may be a bit more common here due to the sluggish economy, but I would guess that no matter where you grow up, many of your friends will leave after HS to chase success in another city.

    To that point, I too have plenty of friends from HS who still ask me why I am still here. These are often people making less, living a lower standard of living, and living in a 600 sq.ft. apartment. They will never be able to see any oppurtunity here. It's just part of the human condition.

  24. bella0731

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    Nov 21st 2007, 11:38

    Buffalo by Choice! It is definitely my choice to be back in Buffalo.

    I've lived in L.A. and then Vermont for the last seven years. Burlington, Vermont is an amazing city and I spent a lot of time in Montreal. Out of all three places, I still choose Buffalo hands down. There are issues and challenges with urban planning and jobs everywhere you go, but the people in Buffalo and the amazing things going on, will continue to draw people back.

    I had a job offer in Montreal at the same time my job offer in Buffalo came in last winter and I chose Buffalo because I saw it as an opportunity to return to the city I love with an amazing job in my field that I love just as much. I'm being paid well in my position and I am saving everything so I can buy a house in the spring to make my transition back complete.

    To everyone posting negative comments, if you don't make Buffalo your choice, then Buffalo Rising probably isn't the place for you...

    Let's go Buff-A-Lo!

  25. sbrof

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    Nov 21st 2007, 12:11

    The whole adage of greener grass works both ways. Most people don't realize the life they had was good until they have abandoned it. The sad truth is this isn't a human condition but a media inspired collective "woo is me" attitude. It happens in a lot of cities in America but doesn't mean it has to be that way. We are never taught to be happy with life anymore. How many times were you told to get more, buy more, buy bigger, make more money... more more more more more... now think about how many times you were told to think about your life and realize how good it really is. Sure more money / things wouldn't be a bad thing but to have it consume your sense of self is destructive.

    America has a giant case of penis envy. How many times have you heard people say they are moving away with a proud overtone. "Man I am getting out here.." Ever just ask them why and try to delve deeper. Most of the time it's a hollow statement they feel they are supposed to say. I usually respond with, sure, go have fun. After a while they probably are going to miss home.. because in the end we only have one of those for our whole life.

  26. AppleJack

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    Nov 21st 2007, 12:23

    I was born and raised in Buffalo, have lived in Charlotte and Colombia, spent time in Pittsburg, Boston and Tempe only to have to come back to Buffalo to finish a degree that I started here. That was 2 years ago and every day I get up, eat breakfast and pray that by some small miracle I will get one of the countless jobs that I have applied for out of state and be able to move.

    In Buffalo, I have found that when walking down the street as an interracial couple, the scowls and murmured comments are too numerous to count. I have found that the 9-5 corporate companies do not want me because I lack a master's degree. I have found that the creative, independent companies do not want me because I am not hipster enough. I have found that the minimum wage employers here do not want me because I am over-educated, and I have realized that there is nothing in between. For a "city of good neighbors", I have seen my neighbor shoot my cat's leg off with a bee bee gun because it was in his backyard, been kicked out of Elmwood's own coffee shop for talking too loud with an out of state friend who visits the city once a year and been parking ticketed at 8:50 am when the rule doesn't apply until 9 am. DMV headquarters in Albany has issued a suspension on a friend's car registration because she just moved to Arizona and transferred her plates - they did not bother to check the system to see that she did in fact register there. Out of principal, because she did not want a suspended registration on her record, she spent 1 hour and 7 minutes on hold with Albany before someone answered. Must be how they weed out the ones who are not dedicated to their cause.

    I have become the well rounded person that I believe myself to be, because I spend one weekend a month traveling out of the city and occassionally out of the country, to places that welcome the richness of culture and diversity, who will bend over backwards to ensure that their tourists have clean attractions to visit and who make sure that their residents are not alienated by their own police, barista's and neighbors.

    Good for anyone who has made a good life in Buffalo, my own parents love it here. And I know that every city has it's not-so-nice-residents, but in my growing list, the cons are far out weighing the pros. Good luck.

  27. al-alo

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    Nov 21st 2007, 12:27

    chiknlil,

    no worries man. im in the nonprofit sector, and i knew the salaries arent great. i needed a job that wasnt clubing baby seals or taking poor/elderly/uninformed people for a ride. i wanted to do something positive for the community, and i still do. but i cant afford to be a martyr with no possibilty for advancement either.

    i am not originally form buffalo. i came here for school. i stayed because i love it here. ive been to 45 states (and lived in DC for 2 ish years) and 8 or so countries, but every time i come back (even new york state in general), it just feels right. there are seasons, and sidewalks, and corner cafes, and museums, and sports. its a small town. its a city. its just right.

    now coach, id really like to get into the game.

  28. Sulley

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    Nov 21st 2007, 12:42

    I moved to Buffalo from Birmingham, AL in 2005.

    I took a lower paying position because I fell in love with someone who is a "talkin' proud" Buffalo native.

    There's a lot to like about Buffalo -- the lake, close proximity to Canada, the new foods, etc.

    But from an economic standpoint, it was a disaster. My wages took a significant cut, I paid a lot more in taxes, and I hit a ceiling with my career.

    Even though it broke my heart, I moved back to a job that pays about 16k more in the same field with a lower cost of living and taxes.

    So yes, as a person who knows Steve, I say without a doubt, Buffalo is a choice.

    As a non native though, I have to say its funny when you guys say everyone is so nice in WNY. There are plenty of nice people in Buffalo -- but there are lots of places, too!

  29. MJWorthington

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    Nov 21st 2007, 12:52

    perfectly stated sbrof.

  30. RonR

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    Nov 21st 2007, 13:30

    If the residents of Buffalo are serious about bringing people home and are serious about growing opportunity in the area they must abandon setting terms.

    Saying we need "X" kinds of jobs or "Y" kinds of companies is counter productive. Buffalo needs to change the business climate and make it more friendly for companies to operate. Buffalo needs to allow the natural progression to happen.

    We all know the positives about the city. I think that people just need to make arrangements for those positives to produce and stop trying to force growth. Just allow for it to happen and it will.

  31. Prodigal-Son

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    Nov 21st 2007, 13:36

    I was going to post my life story as well (born in Buffalo, moved away to college, lived in Milwaukee, SD, Florida, NM and Vegas, and then moved back this summer, during Buffalo Old Home Week, coincidentally), but everyone else has already. I completely agree that Buffalo is a choice. I left for greener pastures, didn't find them, and made a conscious choice to come back. I hadn't failed to make it on the outside, I had succeeded, but wanted something different for my kids than the fake self-indulgence of Las Vegas. But I'll be honest, if Buffalo was the same as it was when I left (mid-90's) I would not have returned. It took not just my love of family, culture, sports, and history, but also hard economic realities that I thought Buffalo had made a turn. $2.5 billion investment in downtown for starters.

    My point, though, is that there are so many good stories that need to be shared with a much wider audience than this blog-site of regular readers (many of whom have already made the Buffalo choice). Marti is doing a great job with her Buffalo By Choice organization, and Buffalo Old Home Week, but we need a national campaign to reach the thousands of people who went college out of town and never did choose to move back. How do we take the massive funding already dedicated to such efforts (bed taxes with the CVB, BNE work, etc) and market Buffalo not just to conventions and businesses, but to our ex-pats as well. Tell them the Buffalo of today is different than the Buffalo they left. Same food and family, but better jobs, economic conditions, etc.

  32. Drew

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    Nov 21st 2007, 13:38

    Jules, you are right, some things are going well there, but there are things that Buffalo has that Pittsburgh doesn't. I would have never have been able to afford the house in the city that I got in Buffalo if it was in Pittsburgh. And I never thought I would say this, but people are nicer here (they are pretty nice in Pittsburgh, too) Buffalo has more free/cheap summertime fun, its easier to start and shop local business, and being near Canada is a plus, too. I love Pittsburgh, and always will, but I am proud to have made Buffalo my new home.

    As for the other discussion--when I moved here, wages stayed about the same (even though I took a "step up," in terms of position), but expenses went way down. If ever there was a place for champagne taste on a beer budget, this is the place (and since I have "beer taste,") there's money left over.

  33. ChristaSeychew

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    Nov 21st 2007, 13:39

    I love Buffalo. A prestigious position in a big city with a big salary couldn't drag me away. the quality of life here is second to none.

    Culturally I wish that we had a broader and deeper range of people here, I'd like my children to grow up in an area as ethnically diverse as I did (Seattle). I'd like people to be more tolerant, I'd like people to appreciate what they have and I'd like there to be less poverty, but isn't that the case everywhere?

    I love it here, and I can't wait for Buffalo itself to realize how marvelous it is.

  34. icecreamsub

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    Nov 21st 2007, 13:57

    I think Buffalo should steal NYC's moniker...."If you can make it here, you can make it anywhere"....cause it ain't easy that's for sure. That being said, I'm not leaving anytime soon......my parole hearing isn't for another year

  35. SLEEPL8

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    Nov 21st 2007, 14:25

    If you don't like it here, leave. If you miss it, come back. Problem solved.

  36. bloria

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    Nov 21st 2007, 14:28

    I was born and raised in Buffalo. I recently graduated from UB and right now I am serving as an Americorps volunteer on the West Side. I'm going back to school next fall for a Master's in Social Work and fully intend to stay and work in Buffalo. I don't really expect to be swimming in money as a social worker, but with an MSW and Spanish fluency, I think I'll do alright.

    I love and have so much hope for this city.

  37. georgethomasapfel

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    Nov 21st 2007, 16:06

    I was Born in Buffalo, spent the first ten years of my life here. My father was laid off when Bell moved out of town and mom yearned for a warmer climate, so in 1963 we all headed to the land of opportunity in Las Vegas. Since my father was a licensed Stationary Engineer with HVAC certification, it seemed the smart choice- because in Vegas A/C is not a luxury but a necessity. No problem finding a job in a city that was growing rapidly and relied heavily on AC.

    It didn't turn out that way.  In the ten years until his passing my father never found a fulltime job, his last gig was as a part time school crossing guard. Being newcomers to town and without any contacts he was unable to get a foot in the door-- back then you had to have 'juice' to get hired.

    At first I was filled with excitement, in Vegas everything was new and the town had miles of flashing neon, it was filled with excitement.  Such a change from the town I perceived as rundown, old, and depressing.  Wow, I could go swimming in April here! Miles and miles of open desert for me to build forts! My enthusiasm started to wane when I started my first day of school in the fall of 1963. I came along and talked funny (don't know if you call it a "Buffalo Accent" but I had one) and kids being kids made fun of me.  I was admonished by my teacher for not "fitting in" and interacting with my fellow classmates. I did make friends, but they tended to also be transplants facing the similar issues of "fitting in."   I missed Buffalo terribly, I missed the great friends I had back home and missed the parks, the neighborhood camaraderie, and the four seasons, I missed trees! Yeah, I didn't have to shovel snow but I couldn't do much when it was 112 degrees outside. The years passed and I came to accept my new home, I tended to be a loner and as the city exploded in growth more and more transplants changed the attitudes...in fact, it was (and still is) more normal to be a newcomer than a native.  By now I'm considered a "native."

    In hindsight Vegas was a great place for me when I was starting in my career, being a small radio market in the early 70's I was able to get a job and advance quickly- I was a manager after only 3 years in the biz!  25 years I played the hits on the radio as a DJ, then saw the future of the business and taught myself engineering and computers.  I got my college degree and raised a family, now the kids have moved out with families of their own.  But all those years I never stopped missing home.  And when my son had a choice where to live to make, he left Las Vegas.  He didn't want his kids attending the local schools and was concerned of the rising crime rate. Urban sprawl was causing the quality of life to deteriorate. One by one my long-time Vegas friends started to move away also, many cashed in on the real estate boom and sold their homes to move back from where they came. In a couple of months the friend I've known the longest will sell their home and move back east. Another friend I've known since 7th grade is also making plans to move out of town. Vegas has been good for me but now it's turned into a sprawling congested suburb of Southern California.

    So I came to a point where I could also make a choice on where I wanted live. I chose Buffalo. In the past 44 years the only times I felt like I was truly "home" was when I was back in February this year and in July for Old Home Week. I have tons of family in the area, plus I've been gradually making contact with the dozens of cousins I didn't even know I had. I met my only surviving uncle for the first time, when I'm back home I'll meet two first cousins I didn't even know I had until we found one another through genealogy research. Plus I have a unique perspective, not seeing home for so long I came back and found the air less polluted and the lakes and river much cleaner. Even the buildings downtown are cleaner. As I do the job hunt I'm receiving from 15-20 new position announcements every single day in my inbox...I've been offered a great business partnership with a small Buffalo-owned business which I'll begin as soon as I arrive. And I've already made many great friends in Buffalo and am inspired by the accomplishments of an old third-grade classmate of mine--you may have heard of her, Marilyn Rodgers (I think Miss Clapps would be proud!) I'm a volunteer with Buffalo ReUse, signed up as a volunteer with the Central Terminal Restoration Corp and am working closely with Marti on Buffalo By Choice and Buffalo Homecoming 2008.

    To me, "home" is where you feel like you belong. When I'm in Buffalo, I feel like I'm right where I belong.

  38. AtwaterLouse

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    Nov 21st 2007, 16:34

    First thought was about the irony of al-alo's "rich should have to pay more taxes" as contrasted with al-alo of the past "why can't we convince a lot more people and companies to move to Buffalo and create jobs here?", (paraphrasings), but it seems rubygreta and RonR addressed Econ 101 topics very well above. So in the spirit of the holdiays and to honor the ongoing turnaround, renaissance, and turning of the corner, I'll shut up this time. Just will say this great sentence from RonR would be even greater if it said "Buffalo and NY State needs to..." (and of course neither Buffalo or NYS seem at all interested in anything of the sort, except for whatever Collins might do before the legislature starts steamrolling him).

    Buffalo needs to change the business climate and make it more friendly for companies to operate.

    Prodigal Son, if your last sentence that we already have better jobs and economic conditions is true, then there shouldn't need to be any special expensive advertising. The people wanting to move here should notice the greatly improved quantity and quality of Buffalo job openings when they check Monster.com listings.

  39. Joshua

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    Nov 21st 2007, 16:53

    george - I also volunteer with the Central Terminal - when do you come down, for events or building committee work parties?

  40. al-alo

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    Nov 21st 2007, 17:04

    louse - actually i said:

    "ruby, that rich guy is probably taxed less of a percentage than you or i."

    i didnt advocate anything by that statement. it was a whale against tax cheats, dodgers, and offshore shelters. that said. i do believe in national progressive income tax. let the broadest shoulders bear the greatest load, i says.

  41. al-alo

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    Nov 21st 2007, 17:07

    did i say whale instead of wail? better send some of those tax dollars to the dept of ed.

  42. georgethomasapfel

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    Nov 21st 2007, 17:23

    Joshua, I'm still in the process of packing up here in Vegas (i've lived in my present home for 22 years and am a packrat--sheez, do I have junk to clean out!) -- but once I'm in town count on seeing me as part of the work parties.

  43. AtwaterLouse

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    Nov 21st 2007, 19:35

    Yeah, I noted it was paraphrasing... but probably I should've made that clearer than I did. Sorry.

    But why would you assume somebody you never met or heard of before is likely a cheat just because they are successful? If I assumed a poor person I never met is a shoplifter, people would (rightly so) complain about me making that assumption.

    As a side note, the kind of successful job-creating person ruby described is exactly what Buffalo would need much more of when or if your stated goal of our population trend reversing course is ever to come true. people like him could each make it possible for multiple other people to ahve jobs here. I might have expected your reaction to ruby to have been more something along lines of "hey can you ask that guy to move to Buffalo please?" rather than to say you assume it's likely he's a cheat or whatever.

  44. Frankster

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    Nov 21st 2007, 20:57

    Buffalo is the greener pasture that I came to and every day I give thanks that I don't have to live in a soulless boomburg like Las Vegas or Charlotte.

  45. sancor

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    Nov 23rd 2007, 14:10

    My brother-in-law got his pharmacy degree at UB and will be returning to Buffalo to get a position with Walgreens. As a Canadian he had to take postions in Florida for a few years to get his green card but is looking forward to settling back into Buffalo. He is from London, Ontario, but I am very familiar with Buffalo having grown up in St. Catharines. I truly do think it is the best kept secret in the states. Everytime we are back in the Niagara Region we spend a day and evening in town and each time I grow more fond of the city, I truly hope that its reached its bottom and it is all up from here. I will be spending more time in Buffalo in the future. I have some buddies with a software/business solutions company in Toronto (70 employess). Any Buffalonians interested in their services contact "www.intelliware.ca"

  46. NBJOHN

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    Nov 24th 2007, 12:51

    Buffalo is a choice, but why do we have to pay so much to live in our choice (aka Taxes) .... yes the cost of living is lower, but start adding in the taxes (thank you NY State, Sammy " tax and spend" Hoyt, etc) and it makes it more difficult for us...the middle class.

    Makes me long for WNY to become the 51st state

  47. uptownnc704

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    Nov 24th 2007, 13:29

    Ok guys.. (and gals). Here's my opinion on this, and we all know opinions are genrally worthless.

    1. Buffalo is a depressed economy relative to the greater portion of the US. 2. Housing is cheap if you choose an older city property. New construction seems to be on par. 3. I moved from Buffalo to Charlotte to Singapore. Yes, I miss Buffalo but that's because I grew up there and spent 30 years of my life there. I bet i'd miss cleveland if that's where I spent 30 years of my life. 4. The probability of having a job managing global operations across all of Africa and Asia if I still lived in Buffalo - near 0. 5. People have to stop looking at wage levels without understanding cost of living. Sure, a job making 50k in Buffalo could make 100k in NYC. However, try living in NYC on that 100k and see how much more you can afford. 6. People everywhere feel their underpaid. However, the people that complain the most are the ones that don't do anything to improve it. I can't count the number of times staff in WNY told me they were underpaid, but they still sat in their jobs for 10-15 years. Here's a hint, significant pay raises don't usually stroll by your cubicle. 7. Labor forces in WNY are relatively inexpensive, but remember there are other people that work for less. 8. There is no way I would pay 350K USD for a condo on West Utica. No way. So I bought one in Uptown Charlotte; an area that could easily sustain investment return on that size property.

    Does this make me a bad former Buffalonian? To some of the die hards yes. To me, I miss my family and my friends and have great memories of Buffalo. Matter of fact, i'll be back for Christmas.

    However, I still need to see significant and real (not talk of) change in the economic sectors of the city to make it permenant.

    Buffalo is a city of complacent neighbors.

  48. xosder

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    Nov 24th 2007, 14:39

    If all everyone is looking for is a job, then you become a commodity, i.e. low pay. With a two or four year degree in a social science or art history, which are being churned out locally in what appears to be in staggering amounts, the positions available are quite limited. For all who doubt I would be happy to share the last batch of resume's that have crossed my desk. This is NOT a Buffalo-only issue.

    Blame it on the government, blame it on economics, blame it on the stingy business owners, blame it on the skyway, blame it on everyone but yourself. If a person wants to get paid what they think they are worth, then that person needs to offer something in return. It is not the business owner's responsibility to provide training and a paycheck. It is everyone's individual responsibility to offer something that the business community will pay for. Find out what it is and target the niche. That probably means training or additional education beyond the degree you may have.

    There are well paying jobs in Buffalo....I just hired someone who I had relocate from Southern California @ $80K, another person I relocated from North Carolina at $60K and a third locally based person at $40K. Common theme: none have more than a two year degree from a Community College, however they all have the background and skills that are needed in a field where there are jobs. It's up to the individual.

  49. mac1234

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    Nov 27th 2007, 00:06

    There is definitely something about this city that makes most miss it so much when they leave. I go to school a couple hours away and I miss being in buffalo everytime I leave. Maybe everybody feels that way about their home towns, but I dont know. Our city has so much heart-so much soul. Somethings arent so convenient, like the job market and some aspects of our schools, but just like a loving, yet dysfunctional family, theres something that feels so right about being home regardless of how you get by. I know I want to see what other places are like, but a part of me is also trying to hold on as best as i can because I know I will want to come back immediately.

    For those who moved away:how easy was it to start life over back home? do you regret leaving?

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