Regional April 1, 2010 11:22 AM

Theological Thursdays: Violent Inclinations

Theological Thursdays: Violent Inclinations
News of this shooting came as I was preparing a sermon for Good Friday, the day Christians remember the death of Jesus.  The stories are far from parallel, but this much is true--first century society and our contemporary culture both suffer from disordered thinking.  We are inclined toward violence in way that is not only unhealthy, it doesn't make sense.

As I reflected on one of the words Jesus spoke from the cross, "Father, forgive them for they know not what they do," it occurred to me that each of the parties that played a part in the crucifixion did what was expected of them.  The religious leaders were protecting the religious establishment.  The government was keeping peace and order, and the crowd listened to its leaders and followed.

When we look at the ways our government works, our religious establishment (full disclosure: I'm part of it) and the findings of social psychology, we shouldn't expect the outcome to be any different were it to occur today.

What does this have to do with the shooting in this particular case?  I think the shooter did what many of us would have done in the same situation.  I am no attorney, but through popular culture, I already knew it was within my rights to kill an intruder.

But does it make sense?  The shooter did just what we've seen in sitcoms and movies, and just what many of us might do if we woke up scared and disoriented.

Yet he was upstairs, and the suspected burglar was down.  The police had already been called, and the shooter owned his home, which means he was likely insured against theft. 

He likely would have protected his family better by hiding them, leaving by a back door, or simply waiting at the top of the steps.  But these ideas only come with time and with reflection.

This is why ethical/moral/theological reasoning in advance is so important.  In a crisis, we rely on instinct, and the paths of least resistance.  We fall into the roles we have been taught to follow.  That is what happened in first century Palestine, and that is what happened here.  (Please don't read me as implying, however, that the shooter killed Jesus--or even assigning any intention to the shooter.)

I do not know if the shooter was a part of a spiritual community, but again and again we hear stories that reinforce a reach for the gun.  This weekend, Christians will hear a story where violence fails, and victory comes through suffering.

Christians today need to hear that story, and stories like it, more than ever.

It's scary that violence comes so naturally and even seems instinctual.  Preventing more early deaths like this one requires self-discipline and training for all of us.

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Good points Rev Drew. Instincts are developed over time through education and experience. Unfortunately the shooter's instincts were to shoot to kill. At times our society leads us to develop "killer instincts" as a percieved necessity for survival in a world that we view as violent and dangerous. Violence and anger are self perpetuating...in that one tends to respond to violence and anger with thier own violence and anger. It is a crazy, unfortunate situation. Perhaps if the shooter had been exposed to more peaceful methods of conflict resolution both men could have been in a different place today? Welcome to America. Shoot first, ask questions later.

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Good points.

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Please don't interpret my previous comment as a criticism of the shooter. I imagine this has been a difficult time for him and his family. I can't fault a man for defending his home with his family in it. I can't honestly say that I would have acted differently as I am a product of the same society. My point is that we live in a world that instills the need to devend ourselves. I am commenting on voilence in our society at large rather than this particular instance.

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Does anyone remember the fatal shooting on Burlington Avenue last April? Two men broke into the house of an off-duty Buffalo Police Officer, Charles E. Gidney Sr. Both intruders were shot, Reno Sayles was killed, while the other intruder, Anthony Creamer was seriously wounded but survived.

The Police Officer announced himself and told the intruders to leave, but ultimately shot at both of them. The judge in the case said that Officer Gidney had "had nothing to feel guilty about”.

I don't think the case in Amherst is all that different. If one of Buffalo's Bravest has to shoot to kill two intruders at 9:30 AM on a bright morning, then I can't imagine how the family in Amherst must have been feeling. If it were me, I know that I would be very scared to see someone in my house at 1:00 AM, and even more terrified if that person refused to leave.

It is unfortunate that David Parks died in this situation, and I think that if David Parks had been an African American or homeless, then we would be looking at this whole situation very differently. David Parks made a terrible mistake by getting too drunk, then entering the neighbor's house, then refusing to leave, and then trying to go up the stairs. I feel for the D'amicos. They should have never been put in this situation to begin with.

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I feel bad for Mrs. Park.

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I feel for the Park Family, the D'Amico family, and all of David Park's friends who were with him that night. It is truly tragic, but the catalyst to this entire string of events is Mr. Park walking into the wrong house. Let's not lose sight of that fact.

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I certainly feel bad for both of the families. And yes, most of us would do the same thing in the same situation, but that does not make it the best course of action.

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I disagree that most of us would have done the same thing. Most of us do not have loaded weapons in our homes.
I think the homeowner paniced, we will never know if he really warned the intruder. The Amherst police and the homeowner's lawyer were very careful in setting the tone of the debate to protect the shooter. Our society is so enamored with guns and violence and we are constantly told to be afraid by the media and especially those on the right. This message of fear leads to just this type of outcome.

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How would you have handled this situation differently? Say you didn't know that David Park was a school teacher from Albany who just happened to enter the wrong house. Say you were asleep with your wife at 1:00 AM when someone entered your home, refused to leave, and was heading up the stairs towards your bedroom. What would you do differently?

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I had an intruder in my house, I dosed off at about midnight and a guy walked in mistakenly thinking it was my tenants apartment, I confronted him, he explained his mistake and left, nobody died.
On another occasion while working late one night on the restoration of my then vacant house a guy walked right in looking for a friend that used to live there, I explained to him that person was not there and he left.
I guess here in Black Rock we are less afraid and less suspicious than our suburban neighbors but we are not naive.
I do have a bear pepper spray canister that is a much more humane way to deal with an unwanted guest.

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I had an intruder in my house a few years ago, he left when I yelled to him that I had called the Police. A former neighbor on Lisbon wasn't so lucky, she was raped and beaten and left for dead in her closet by an intruder who came in through the bathroom window. Sometimes it is a mistake, and sometimes there are truly horrendous people who want to do harm to others. I am not saying that you should shoot first and ask questions later, but there are cases where the intruder might actually be out to hurt you. In the Amherst incident, the intruder made his way through the house and was headed up the stairs when he was shot, he did not heed the warnings from the home owner and continued to advance. There is no way to know that the intruder wasn't armed, wasn't high on drugs, and wasn't out to hurt the family. Had this been a case of theft, then Mr. Parks might have attempted to steal something from the first floor, that wasn't the case. He was on his way upstairs towards Mr. D'Amico and that was when he was shot.

This isn't an issue of Black Rock vs Amherst, this is a matter of a homeowner who was fearing for his life as an intruder was coming up the stairs towards him. This same scenario and outcome could have happened in Black Rock, or anywhere else for that matter.

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Here is the law, not the urban-myth version of it: You are NOT justified in shooting someone in your home unless you know or have a reasonable belief the intruder is armed; or when there is imminent danger of certain enumerated situations such as robbery - NOT theft.

Knowing the law now you can see the problem. Drew points out that there was no reason to think the intruder was armed (he was not). There was no indication of any theft (which in itself does not justify shooting an intruder. After all its only stuff - stuff that’s insured). The homeowner had called the police already.

Starting from violence not only is a modern societal state of mind but led here to an unjustified and obviously tragic outcome. The homeowner should be facing charges.

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I would challenge that the intruder was placing the D'Amico family in imminent danger and harm by proceeding from the back door of the house, through the first floor, and attempting to walk up the stairs. The Amherst Police have disclosed that David Park was shot at the foot of the stairs by Mr. D'Amico who was at the top of the stairs. If David Park refused to acknowledge Mr. D'Amico's continued request to stop and leave the house, and continued to proceed towards the stairs and the D'Amico family, then the use of force would be justified. This is still considered a homicide, and is investigated based on the facts and circumstances of the specific case.

I don't believe that this is a case of robbery and insurance. According to the limited information released by the Amherst Police, it appears that David Parks entered the home and was heading towards the D'Amico family who were hiding upstairs. The Grand Jury will weigh these facts and come up with a determination on whether or not this is justified or unjustified homicide.

I agree with the comments above, this is an unfortunate tragedy for all involved.

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They must have reason to know he was armed. Speaking only theoretically, a guy stupid-drunk at the foot of your stairs is NOT legal justification for shooting him.

The law speaks of differences between what is deemed objective belief (what a reasonable person would believe) and subjective belief (what the actual person involved in the incident believed and why).

In this situation, only a jury may decide if the homeowner had an objective and reasonable belief there was imminent danger - not the DA and not public opinion. I don’t see that here and it should be left to a jury to decide. The DA should press charges if the facts are as presented. That's the way the system works.

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I think we are all missing the point here. The death was largely a result of poor urban planning and emphasis on sprawl. You would not see a tragic event like this happen in the core.

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As D12 sang:

"Pow-pow! Straight off the corral
Now, the dirtiest street vet from the mile
Is vexed without the techs and six shooter
Body bullet polluter, perverted intruder
Now who the, **** wanna buck with the diseased,
that's dis-eased
I got a ***** named trigger, my main-squeeze will make your brainfreeze
Dirty D is dope like cane

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