City March 9, 2010 7:00 PM

City Kids: A Mom and Her Toddler On the Go in Buffalo

City Kids: A Mom and Her Toddler On the Go in Buffalo
Article By Rachel Fix Dominguez:

I moved back to Buffalo (with my California-transplant husband) in 2004 partly because of the quality of life here. Having grown up in this city, I always knew I'd like to raise my children here. And now that I am a mother (to a 17 month old son, whom we'll call E.), Buffalo does not disappoint. Are there days, weeks, even months when I've lamented how the cold has limited our outdoor options? Sure. I'd be lying if I pretended to love every minute of raising a child in this climate. But overall I find that there's plenty to do with kids in Buffalo, even in the depths of winter.

As any new parent soon learns, the world is a different place when you're living in it with a little one. Restaurants get reevaluated in terms of how much they mind food on the floor, whether or not they've got good high chairs and food your kid will actually consume, and whether or not the other patrons throw daggers your way when you walk in the door. The shops you frequent are now partly determined by their proximity to other useful places, how many breakable items are within reach, whether a screaming, pre-nap child will be looked upon with sympathy, and what sort of changing table configuration (if any) is in place.

This series of posts (which I'm calling City Kids), to be updated as frequently as motherhood allows, will explore some of the ways families can have fun in the City of Good Neighbors. My goal for City Kids is not to unearth new or undiscovered places; rather, I plan to discuss what's fun and interesting to do with a child (or two, or five, plus or minus a partner, grandparent, or other set of helping hands) in tow. I welcome your suggestions along these lines. Where do you go as a family? Where are your favorite places to take kids in Buffalo? What are some fun day trips you've made with children? Let's share ideas about family-oriented activities and events in our community. From La Nova pizza night at home on wintry evening to an afternoon at the Albright-Knox to a possible day trip... the options for having fun with your little ones in and around Buffalo are extensive.
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Looking forward to this, Rachel.

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This sounds great-- the area really does have lots of fun options for the kiddos. Can't wait to hear what you find!

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We made the move from Brooklyn with our 2 year old and have found a wealth of kid-friendly activities for all seasons in WNY. Topping our list would be the Friday Gusto programs at the Albright-Knox, a wonderful (free) gift to the community.

We are also pleased to say that (having arrived here not knowing a soul) Buffalo really is the City of Good Neighbors- we feel lucky for having settled here.

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Glad to hear that you've received a warm Buffalo welcome. I love Fridays at the Gusto, too.

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What I really want to know is how you got your husband to move back to Buffalo. I've been trying to convince my California-native hubby for years:-) What's your secret?

As for the City Kids series, great idea! I can't wait to read your posts. I have a 5-year old, and I love finding fun stuff to do when we come home to visit.

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949er: It involved arranging to telecommute and a lot of time on buffaloniagarahomes.com!

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I've been trying to use the lure of affordable real estate for a while now (along with the prospect of having beef on weck and real wings whenever we want, among other things of course). I'm hoping one of these days I'll break his resolve. If we could only nail down the job side of things, I think we'd be in business.

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Yep, that's the hardest part. Good luck!

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Our boys are 6, 4 and 1. I look forward to the articles.

At this age, (especially 4 & 6) they're not too hard to entertain.

Riding the subway is always a hit, no matter what the excuse. Sledding in Delaware Park (the hill used for Shakespeare In The Park) is big (and the playground by the Rose Garden is like a singles bar for single digit aged kids. They love going there and trying to meet other kids). Buff State has ice skating lessons on Saturdays in the winter, which they really like, and open skates on Sundays when college hockey season is over and we've gone to Rotary Rink (I'm big on getting them used to cold weather activities in the hopes that they'll meet girls on the ski slopes some day who don't mind cold weather. Then maybe they'll stay in town, near us. that's the plan, anyway).

Hopefully some beaches will stay open this year despite the state budget. They love going to the marina and always ask to go on the naval ships (which we've done a few times). The zoo is always a hit, of course, and family membership is cheap (though I have misgivings about supporting the display of captive creatures). Bike rides (especially when we carry or trailer them) are frequent summertime requests.

Buffalo is pretty kid friendly.

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I did get a chuckle over over the singles' bar for single digit kids bit but I laughed out loud over the carefully crafted plan associated with cold weather activities !

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biniszkiewicz: Lots of good ideas! And I love your long-term plan. Be careful, though, or they might wind up in Aspen. ;)

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The foto reeks unkindly with a homage to Woody Allen's "everything you ever wanted to know about sex" ;-!

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Uh oh, better watch it, REGURGE... You're coming between a mama bear and her cub with this comment. Take it for the innocent exploration of the world that it was. ;)

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I think the photo says it all... There are new and fun experiences to be found as a kid in even what most adults would consider mundane at best.

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Thanks for expressing what I saw too, Sean. :)

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took my nephew to the Bidwell farmers market when i was in town last summer. lots of fun treats to try (especially the yoghurt stand) and a ton of space to run around in. plus you're near to tons of other cultural stuff to continue on to afterwards.

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Not to sound negative but I think the photo should remind Buffalo that the holidays are over and that the ornament should go away for nine months. ;)

I saw on the Powder Keg/youtube video that they're still out.

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I chose this photo not because it's a winter/ornament photo but because it captures the sentiment Sean alluded to above.

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Thanks all, for the warm reception. I look forward to writing more posts on the topic!

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Wasn't being critical of you my friend - just the folks and organizations that leave holiday decoractions up in MARCH!

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Gotcha! You'll be happy to hear that my Christmas tree was out the door by the second week of January, then. :)

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As a father of a 7,6 and 3 year old. I am looking forward to your posts.

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This is a great post that touches the kid in all of us.

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