City January 28, 2010 7:58 AM

Theological Thursdays: The Theology of Extreme Makeover

Theological Thursdays: The Theology of Extreme Makeover
Though I am happy for the positive change on the West Side, and for the Powell family, there are a number of assumptions behind the show that should not remained unchallenged.

Of course, the show said little about God, so to say that it is sharing a theology might not be the most precise of language, but it does have a specific and identifiable worldview that touches on the great faiths.  It also promotes theologies that are both helpful and harmful.

My favorite theologian, Bono, has said: ""...the thing that keeps me on my knees is the difference between Grace and Karma. At the center of all religions is the idea of Karma. You know, what you put out comes back to you: an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth, or in physics - in physical laws - every action is met by an equal or an opposite one. And yet, along comes this idea called Grace to upend all that.... Love interrupts, if you like, the consequences of your actions, which in my case is very good news indeed, because I've done a lot of stupid stuff."

Now I, like Bono, am a big fan of grace (I need it as much as he does), but despite grace being at the heart of Christianity, American civil religion - which sometimes looks like Christianity - has had a hard time embracing grace.  Our rugged individualism has led to the idea that a person can make it on their own, and thus people deserve what they get.

If "people get what they deserve" is at the heart of our theology, then a show where people get lots of free stuff must make the case for giving those goods.  Certainly, Ms Powell has done some amazing things, but the question has been raised again and again of whether she deserves a new home, scholarships, and all the rest.

Despite the amazing things that Ms Powell has done, nobody deserves what she and her family have received.  I don't have a reality show benefactor, but I am already aware that I have received more than I deserve.  I didn't do anything to cause myself to be born in America to middle class parents who cared about me and made sure I got education.  Nor do I deserve any of the other blessings I have received.

I would like to call the blessings recieved on the show "grace" rather than "deserved," for a number of reasons.  First, it insulates the Powell family from the criticism and analysis of others who have no business judging their "worthiness" as has happened (in part due to the framing of the show).  Secondly, it keeps other neighborhood activists from thinking they "deserve" the same things, which is unrealistic.  Finally, deserved rewards can simply be things that are enjoyed because they were earned.  Gifts of grace bear a responsibility to share grace with others - a competing theology that the show also made explicit.

However, not all of the gifts can be called "grace".  For Disney, the price of a vacation was a small price to pay for the promotion of the idea that happiness can be found in a theme park in Florida.  Sears, along with countless other companies, gave gifts not from grace, but to create desire in the viewers that would not be receiving them for free.  This is not "grace."  At best, it is a fee for promotions; at worst, a family gets used as a marketing pawn.

Still, thousands of volunteers, investing in a neighborhood other than their own, for no material gain at all, represents grace.  Grace was present, even as Disney was.

Grace is the best hope for the West Side, and for Buffalo.  Divine grace and human grace, received and extended again.  While there is much to criticize, grace was the truth that held the show together, and grace is the truth that will allow us to find a life that we honestly don't deserve at all.

 
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This comparison between grace, being deserving and karma proved an inspirational read. Your perspective here will likely make many think, perhaps not the trolls who bait commenters over at the Buffalo News site, but it can serve as a starting point for discussing among those who don't espouse such extreme viewpoints. Thank you.

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Agreed. Best thing I've read on BR in a long time.

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Rev. Drew. Thank you.

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You all are so nice! Thanks.

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Not being a religious man at all, I have to say that the idea of grace is somehow more meaningful than "deserve", which carries the connotation that if one deserves, others do not. Nicely put Rev.

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well said. and agreed. Well done Rev

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I would first like to say that I was touched (like many others) by the Extreme Makeover that featured the Powell family. Whether or not this family was deserving of a new home and scholarships is, I feel, completely irrelevant. The fact of the matter is they proactively asked for help. They had a story to tell, they took initiative, and happened to tell the story to the right people at ABC. This case may be a bit of an outlier, but in general, if you ever need help, sometimes all you have to do is ask. My only hopes, at this point, are multi-faceted. I hope that the Powell family is able to maintain the condition of their home, given it is now full of high-tech gadgetry which can expensive to fix. I hope they are able to absorb the tax ramifications of such a gift. And lastly, I hope every single one of them truly goes out of their way to 'pay it forward,' as was suggested on the show. They've helped breath life into a section of a city that we all love and given Buffalo a forum to make some real, tangible progress. It really touched me to see that neighborhood band together and make changes. And if it can't serve as a model for other cities around the country, so be it. It can, however, serve as a model for other neighborhoods in Buffalo. A little gumption can go a long way.

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This is one of the best things I have read on the Internet in quite awhile. It was both thought provoking and internally meaningful, thank you very much for sharing your perspective by publishing this article. I plan on sharing this with others, especially those who complained about the Powell family.

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Nice perspective!

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For me, the most grace filled part of the experience was watching all the people helping at the many houses in the area near Massachusetts Ave, knowing that some of them were seeing the city and the neighborhood in a new way.

It was exciting to watch people discovering the possibilites of what we can do together. It was encouraging to see people like the folks from PUSH, Americorps, Buffalo Re-Tree and Buffalo ReUsed acknowledged for the good things they do.

I appreciate David Stapleton for challenging the show's producers to do things differently this time and I loved seeing it turn out so well.

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Nice, thoughtful, and engaging perspective! This concept of "grace" helps us clarify the many places our human foibles can take us as petty and irrelevant in the big scheme of things no matter how well argued by any individual or group.

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I really liked what you had to say. But i would like to hear what you have to say about the motives of the volunteers. was it all just to be on television? or were they genuinely motivated to help a family in need? does that make grace any more or less present?

I just wish that people in Buffalo would give more of their time, more often, and not just when tv cameras are around.

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Many of the volunteers were people that had been working on the West Side for years. Many were not. Many were motivated by the tv show, many were not.

They certainly get the same kind of deal that Disney got.

The cynical side of me still does not hold any ill will to people that gave of their time. If I want to be negative, it is to ABC/Disney for using them as a cast of characters for a tv show without compensating them very much at all. But I don't WANT to be negative--that's not a very graceful thing, either.

Bigger crowds show up for concerts and Bills games and we do not question why they show. In each of these cases, more money is wasted and less of substance is produced, but we don't comment because it is "normal."

But this out of the ordinary event comes up and we criticize. It certainly isn't perfect, and we COULD do better the rest of the time, but during one week, some people were moved, and I am glad for it.

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She solicited ABC 4 times, finally requesting Maria Whyte to step in. My more cynical side tends to think that she purposely bought a crummy house & posed as a "neighborhood activist" in order to get a free new house. I bought a crummy house because it was what I could afford, and have dealt with the consequences. Where's my Extreme house? Should my 72 year old mother suffer the cold, because I have too much pride to beg for free gifts?

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pathetic.

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