City July 16, 2009 1:41 PM

Theological Thursdays at The Square

Theological Thursdays at The Square
You've seen the signs, you've heard the shouts.  Maybe you picked up a flyer.  If you've walked Main Street during Thursday at the Square, you've seen some people who have made it abundantly clear what they believe.

The message is pretty simple, most of the time.  There is something wrong with you.  You are sinful.  That is bad, and will result in hell.  That is where you are going unless you change your mind and/or live right, say a certain prayer, etc. . . .

If you believe that God's first concern is judgment, then such actions, though annoying, make sense.  Behavior flows from theology.

Which is why I like the way a different bunch thinks and acts on Thursday night.

For Relevant Worship ministries, a movement of people organized by a local Christian band, judgment is not primary in their theology.  Love is.

So when love comes first, the first action is not a shout, nor is it a sign--because it is hard to express love through a shout or a sign.  It starts with a smile, a gift, an invitation.

Make no mistake, this group would still like to change the beliefs of at least some people--and that, in and of itself, will likely offend some people.  Their methods, however, are servant-hood, kindness, and generosity.  They believe that if they want to show people the God who proclaimed, "Love your neighbor," then they will have to treat those people with love.

And so Relevant invites people, mostly high school students just hanging out on Main Street, to join them at the Christian Center for pizza.  They share their lives, listening to and telling stories over a slice.  Some of the kids share things that can be prayed for, and because love comes first, sexuality, addiction, or any of the other things that shouted about sometimes, cannot stop it.

Nobody is forced into anything (not even listening) and everybody is treated with generosity and respect.

This Thursday (today), you are invited to consider how you share your beliefs (or disbeliefs), and why (or why not) you do.  Is it possible to have a discussion about faith in a public place?  How do you interact with those who try to start them?

I must admit that even I try to avoid most of the people proselytizing on Main as much as I love a good argument, nothing good ever comes from it.  But pizza and respectful conversation sounds good to me.

The Christian Center - 512 Pearl Street @ 8:15PM
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Last fall, I was driving northeast of Toronto to Ottawa and I stopped for gas at a small convenience store. It was 2am and I needed caffeine. As I poured my coffee, the cashier and a customer -- the only other people in the store -- were having a heated debate about god and science. I joined in with the Muslim cashier and the Christian customer for the next hour and we had a great discussion. Needless to say, I didn't need my coffee for the rest of my drive.

I'm always glad to get in philosophical/religious discussions, but it depends on the vibe of the other person(s) as to whether it will end up a shouting match. If that happens, I bail out and go on my way.

Regarding Main Street, are there no end-of-the-world folks shouting on the streets anymore?

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paul, it's too bad more people aren't like that. i was raised catholic and still am. but i love a good chat. you want to start a heated debate? bringing up religion is a great way to do it. religion is very personal. but people take it too far. i'm with you paul. like your post

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Rev. Drew, I agree. I've always wondered what the backstory is of most of those standard-issue "street preachers" -- for example, how many of them live in the suburbs (I often wonder the same about the abortion clinic protesters)--? The only one I ever knew personally, back in Rochester, went into the city from the suburbs (as did all those whom he teamed up with), was abusive to/domineering over his wife, and got into a fistfight with his brother over a refrigerator. I wonder how many of them would work in a more tangible way to make the world a better place and show their religion -- say by coming to help West Side Ministries rehab a house or helping chase dealers away from a corner.


But then, in reference to one of your recent articles, I suspect many of them subscribe to the "escapist" view of the world/end times. In other words, why help improve the world when you expect to be "whisked away" any day now--? Just preach brimstone at people for a few hours and leave.

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Thank God I'm an atheist...

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Irony?

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an attempt at humor...

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Got it. Funny.

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There are a few different sign-toters, but there is a sizable contingent that comes from out of town.

Relevant, the crew that I am talking about, is from all over the region.

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I love when they have a wheel on the bottom of the cross.

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I had a nice chat with two guys from this group before the Better Than Ezra concert a few weeks ago. They were genuinely respectful, knowledgable, and for the most part very non-judgemental. I do have to add that during my 30+ minute conversation with them, more than a dozen people walked by yelling obscenities and taking verbal shots at them. I commend them for how well they handled the hecklers and took it all in stride.


It was definitely a worthwhile conversation, and I look forward to seeing them tonight before George Clinton. Maybe we can continue our debate.


Sometimes the atheists and non-christians can be far more offensive and abrasive than those who are preaching their particular brand of religion. Sometimes atheism becomes just as much a point of affilitation and can be filled with just as many hypocrites as the religious "nuts".

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Yeah - relaxed conversation - intelligent back and forth - that all is great.

BUT it is not what the yahoo pictured on this post does - nor does it represent half of the idiots that plague downtown on a normal summer. (It seems they have tapered off this summer - perhaps their devotion is a little sensitve to rain.)

To yell and scream, thinking that one is going to make any impact whatsoever is aboslutely what these folks are all about. It is about them - their own story - their own redemption - and their own self-absorbtion. If they weren't yelling at me, I would be half-tempted to listen. (Maybe that's why the Scientologists always have people at their tables learning about those pesky aliens inhabiting us - damn thetans...)

What I don't get - is that we can have these jerks yelling and handing out their propoganda - but someone selling an ice cream cone gets told to beat it? (Yep - it all had to come back to the ice cream debate...)

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it's great how these preachers, ministers, etc. talk to you in a respectful, nonjudgmental manner.

it's even better when they attempt to dismantle your psyche and/or self-esteem by placing their moral totem on top of your system of thought. yes, the way moral conviction is introduced in their dialogue is a subtle reminder of the fascist nature of devotion.

by the way, religion is a pseudo philosophy. it is a resignation to the infinite, a manner of thought confining itself to the known, and interpreting the unknown through divinity.

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I was right with you--such bullying, name calling, and smugness, are unnecessary. . . .then you did the same thing with your last sentence.

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being religious and being philosophical are completely different. there is nothing offensive about that.

i never stated that it is impossible to be both, but please feel free to elaborate on your disagreement further.

the difference between philosophy and religion is that religion lays out a framework, a moral construct to be followed in accordance to the will of the higher being or principle. a philosophy is a system of thoughts that have no specific allegiance or tendency beyond what they state or imply in themselves.

i never debased anyone's religion. i just made an observation.

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I guess I read dismissiveness into your last statement, but that doesn't necessarily mean it was there.

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no, not at all. i don't have a problem with any religious peoples, and if any of them have a problem with me, then it's their problem.

i'm only dismissive of those who dismiss my voice to begin with, as there can be no constructive discourse based on that. otherwise, open dialogue is fine.

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the downtrodden and oppressed have only two enemies in our society, those who try to screw them, and those who try to save them....sooner or later everyone's God has to hate someone.

in the words of a sage ol' bumper sticker

"Jesus may love you, but everyone else thinks you're a flaming A-hole"

i'm very curious to know just what advice is offered to lesbian, gay, bi-sexual, and trans-gender youth, (LGBT) who are beat up and threatened in their schools, streets, and homes - at one of these free pizza gospel sit-ins??? there is an alarming lack of 'love' in buffalo churches for these most vulnerable among us. since we're all in the mood to quote 'scripture' try this on....'A POX ON ALL YOUR HOUSES!'
(st.w.shakespeare~book of romeo and juliet)

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"sooner or later everyone's God has to hate someone."

Really? Why? (I know it has happened a lot, but I didn't realize it was determined)

"i'm very curious to know just what advice is offered to lesbian, gay, bi-sexual, and trans-gender youth, (LGBT) who are beat up and threatened in their schools, streets, and homes."

I have no idea what they might say, but I would say. "This is wrong, and we will work with you to make sure you are safe."

and yes, I know that many Christians would say differently, but the God that is written about in the Bible is always on the side of "the downtrodden."

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Missed you last week, Rev. Drew.


I've never been prosyletized by an atheist and I doubt anyone ever has. We usually avoid admitting it, because it comes off as implicit criticism of believers no matter how mildly expressed. Sometimes I think there are more atheists in the closet than gay people.


But I have been hassled by evangelicals. A few years ago I was on my way to work, waiting to cross a street near downtown. A guy approached me with Christian literature. I politely said, "No, thank you," as I do to everyone handing out stuff when I need to get someplace on time, whether it is car wash coupons or devotional tracts. He insisted. I repeated myself. He started yelling at me about burning in hell, etc.


I still cannot figure out verbal abusing strangers is supposed to win them to your cause. Guys like him don't want to save souls at all. Ever notice how, um, excited they get about the prospect of people writhing in torture for all eternity? It does seem to be a guy thing. I can't recall ever being hassled by an evangelical woman.


Which explains a lot about why so many leaders on the Christian Right were silent about "harsh interrogation techniques."

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They usually stop harassing me when I tell them that I'm the lord their god.

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Look at the related entries at the bottom of the page. I was here last week!

But it's nice to be missed.

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Shucks, how did I miss that one? I'd have weighed in for sure on food!

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"I had a nice chat with two guys from this group before the Better Than Ezra concert a few weeks ago. They were genuinely respectful, knowledgable, and for the most part very non-judgemental."

I was at George Clinton last night, stayed across Main from the main masses to be able to breathe a bit, and I was right across from the group of protesters (who are now positioning themselves right within 5 feet of the guards checking IDs). I don't converse with the group at Thursday at the Square, as the signs held aloft are more than enough to convince me of the judgment being passed. While I applaud them for voicing their convictions in a place with potential for so much verbal abuse. But it doesn't mean I have to validate statements such as "Harry Potter is taking your kid to hell" or "There are no gay Christians". These are not the seeds of productive debate -- they're incitement, and I don't blame the individuals who respond with verbal abuse.

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This was a very different group than the one I was talking to a little further up Main Street. There are those who are out to agitate and upset, and there are those who are genuinely interested in having an open discussion with anyone who is interested in taking a few minutes to speak with them. I didn't pay any attention to the 'protesters', as it was obvious that they were there to incite a response from someone who was looking to get in a pissing match with them. That happens all the time, especially from the GLBT community who feel obligated to push back. The Christian church that I recently started attending is open and welcoming to all people regardless of background or sexual orientation. That was a significant difference from the very strict Roman Catholic church that I attended as a child. I am not welcome there, but we shouldn't paint all religions and congregations with the same broad brush.

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Drew, regarding your comments to paul morgan above, I think the reason that I and the others above gladly participate and exchange views in your articles is because it's obvious that you are a rare tolerant Christian. (If you weren't, I'd certainly take my reading elsewhere.)

In my own story, I was an altar boy in Riverside and I loved the ritual. It seemed a welcoming environment until I started questioning the concept of god at the age of 13. When I didn't continue religious education in high school, I was essentially ignored any time I visited the church or attended the annual lawn fete. While a difficult time, I was glad for the experience because it made me explore the validity of religion at a young age.

I have sympathy for the folks in the LGBT community because they have to deal with such intolerant holier-than-thou types that plague many religions. Look at the divide in the Episcopal church in western New York that caused many of them to set up shop in another building because they do not accept gay clergy. Religion, on the whole, still remains an intolerant bastion of old and hurtful thinking and in that sense I can understand paul morgan's line that 'sooner or later everyone's god has to hate someone'.

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We are all intolerant and biased, that is the nature of who we are as Humans. I am very close friends with a lesbian couple who preach for openness and fairness for all in the LGBT community; howevr they then condemn all undocumented foreigners in the US. I also have friends who openly condemn anyone with wealth, going as far as to yell at people who get into expensive cars or driving through expensive neighborhoods just to yell at anyone who may be out in their lawns or walking their dogs. They feel righteous in their support of the poor by condemning the rich. I don't believe that all christians are intolerant, or that Reverand Drew is the rare exception. I think that you may have a bias against the church from the experiences that you detail above and let that bias cloud your view of reality. Open your eyes and mind and you will see things differently.

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O'Brien, I'll agree that we have our biases. However, it's very simplistic to paint the one experience I mentioned above as the cause of my current views. Further, it's insulting to suggest that I 'open my eyes'. You've got to be kidding. I started questioning the concept of god before the church treated me the way they did, so I was already on the path to my current views. In addition, I've lived long enough to explore and experience much more of the world that only reinforces my outlook. If you want to have a discussion you could do much better than resorting to armchair psychiatry.

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Exactly, you have lived long enough and experienced enough to validate your conclusions and judgements. It sounds to me like you have closed your mind to other views and opinions based on what you have deemed to be reality.

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I have closed my mind to joining any religion because I don't acknowledge the existence of a personal god that intervenes in our lives. That's reason enough. My conclusion results from the exploration of ideas that started when I was about 12 or 13. When you're standing on the altar as an altar boy, like I was, and you start questioning the existence of god then you know it's time to get off the stage. Rituals alone, as powerful as they are, don't always keep us in the fold.

I can't prove or disprove the existence of god and I haven't accepted any explanation from the bright minds who expound on the topic; so, in a sense, my mind is always open to a distant god who sits on the sidelines and lets the world take its course. The concept of god will always remain the 800-pound gorilla in the room and that is why I remain interested in philosophical/religious/spiritual discussions.

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The louder you speak, the less people hear.

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I always tell that guy in the picture: "Empty barrels make the most noise" whenever I hear him yelling at us about his bible. Unfortunately, it doesn't seem to make any more impression on him than he does on me.

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Well said. It's unfortunate that some just don't get it. Their presentation is awful. It's like going to restaurant with really great food. Only when you sit down the waiter comes over, grabs your hair, pulls your head back and stuffs it down your throat. No matter how wonderful the food, no one wants to be served like that.

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Either last summer or the one before, a bunch of my friends and I went down to the Square and ran into this guy (pictured) and what looked like his youth group. They got right in front of us and were confrontational, but of course we were also making fun of them to their faces. Anyways, all of us had a few beers and thought it was funny. My one friend starts dancing around the old guy (their leader) and chanting. He stopped right in front of the guy and snapped his suspenders! The guy was completely stunned for about 5 seconds, then he got real mad and we all thought he was going to hit my friend in the face. Unfortunately he didn't and they all left and we took to the train.

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